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  • Two Simple Questions to Evaluate Your Financial Position

    Two Simple Questions to Evaluate Your Financial Position

    I’ve been a student of personal finance for nearly two decades and have taught personal finance since 2021. Since I started Think and Talk Money in 2024, I’ve offered my opinions on what I consider to be the most important concepts in personal finance.

    After more than 150 blog posts, I’m still surprised at what opinions I share that generate the most pushback. For example, I recently gave you two simple questions to ask yourself to evaluate your current financial position:

    1. What happens if something goes wrong, like you lose your job or you have an unexpected medical expense?
    2. Can you take advantage if an incredible investment opportunity presented itself?

    My recommendation was that if you didn’t like your options when considering these questions, it’s a good sign that you should think about building a financial fortress. Building a fortress means having cash on hand. If you don’t have cash on hand, you’re not in a strong financial position, regardless of how much you earn or how many assets you own.

    People did not like hearing that they needed to keep cash on hand.

    I was surprised at how much pushback I received on this notion of keeping cash on hand. Some readers thought keeping cash on hand was not a productive use of money. Another reader challenged the idea that cash was important for investment opportunities.

    You can read my full post on keeping sufficient cash reserves here. In essence, cash is your first line of defense to protect your family. Cash covers you in times of medical or other emergencies, or if you lose your job.

    Unfortunately, that’s happening to a lot people these days as big tech reallocates resources to developing AI. Meta (Facebook) recently announced it’s cutting 10% of its workforce. Oracle is similarly cutting thousands of jobs to focus on AI. Having cash on hand keeps you afloat when your income dries up.

    To put it succinctly, cash is your safety net so you don’t lose all that you’ve built when times are tough.

    Cash is not just about playing defense. Cash also lets you take advantage of unexpected investment opportunities. These opportunities could be anything from buying stocks to buying into a business or law firm. This is sometimes referred to as “keeping your powder dry.” When you have cash, you can act decisively and with confidence.

    Think of cash on hand as a survival tool.

    Author Nick Maggiulli wrote about a similar concept in his recent blog post, “Survival is the Only Success.” Here’s what Maggiulli had to say after discussing millionaires and billionaires who had shockingly lost their fortunes:

    All of these falls from grace illustrate a deeper truth—survival is the only success. It doesn’t matter what you do in life if you can’t sustain it. You could make $100 million, but if you end up in a prison cell or broke, who cares? That’s not success. In fact, it’s the opposite.

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    But they didn’t stop. Why? Because greed is a hell of a drug. Greed drives people to behave in absolutely irrational ways. It drives some people to risk everything for just a little bit more. It’s the most negatively asymmetric payoff you could imagine—the upside is capped, but the downside is unlimited.

    And yet people still make this trade all the time. There are people out there doing it right now. They may look successful today, but they won’t hold onto their success.

    Like Maggiulli, when I talk about having cash on hand, it’s because I want you to survive. Who knew survival was such a controversial issue?

    As attorneys, we should be even more motivated to survive than most. We’ve invested so much money and time into our educations and our careers. It would be a shame to see all that we’ve worked for disappear because we got greedy.

    Keeping cash on hand is the antidote to greed. Yes, you’ll give up some potential investment returns. But, you will have gained peace of mind that you can survive and keep what you’ve already acquired.

    The deeper you are into your career, the more you’ll start thinking about survival.

    17 years into my career as an attorney, this is where I currently find myself. I’ve worked hard to get to where I’m at today, and I don’t want it to all be for nothing. That’s why I am currently dedicated to saving up three years of cash.

    If you’re a new lawyer, you may not feel the same way. Trust me, you will.

    If surviving sounds controversial to you, please drop a comment below and let me know your preferred alternative.

    On the other hand, if surviving sounds important to you, consider building up your cash reserves.

    You don’t need to sell all of your assets and move to an all cash position. Investing is still as important as ever. However, don’t lose sight of preserving what you’ve created. Plus, as your career progresses and your assets increase in value, you have more to lose.

    If, like me, you are hoping to build up your cash reserves, it all starts with knowing where your next dollar earned is going.

    man making a fire indicating that cash is a survival tool.
    Photo by Ian Keefe on Unsplash

    Most of us don’t know where our next dollar is going. 

    The reason a lot of lawyers struggle to build up a cash reserve is because they don’t have a plan for where their next dollar is going. 

    Their income hits their checking account, they spend it on this or that, and pretty soon that money has disappeared. They haven’t used the money to advance any of their priorities, like building a fortress. 

    The money is just gone.

    To me, this is one of the most important money mistakes that we need to fix right away. If not, as your earnings increase, you’ll continue making the same mistakes, just with more money to lose.

    Having a plan for our money, before we earn it, is essential if we want to build our cash reserves. With a plan, we can eliminate those disappearing dollars with confidence that our money is being used to serve our purposes.

    So, how do you create a plan for your money before you earn it?

    You need to have a budget.

    Don’t think you’re too sophisticated or make too much money for a budget.

    Some people hear the word “budget” and immediately tune out. They think they’re too sophisticated or make too much money to worry about budgeting. Or, they don’t want to create a budget because they’re afraid of what it might reveal about their spending habits. Don’t be like these people.

    If you truly want to take control of your finances, there’s no getting around this first step. I’ve read hundreds of personal finance books, listen to money podcasts and read blogs every week, and continue to learn from the leaders in this field. In all my years studying and teaching personal finance, I’ve yet to find any credible person who believes you can reach your financial goals without first creating a budget.

    All of your most important money decisions stem from your budget. No, you don’t have to budget forever. No, you don’t have to be a servant to the spreadsheet. Once you have a plan in place that’s working, you likely won’t need to continue tracking your spending.

    But, to take control of your finances, you need to know where your money is going. It’s as simple as that.

    How to set up a budget that creates excess cash.

    The first step in generating excess cash is to evaluate where your money is actually going each month. Once you know where your money is going, you can come up with a realistic plan and make thoughtful adjustments that puts your money to good use.

    I call this process a Budget After Thinking.

    budget after thinking spreadsheet to help lawyers realize where their money is going.

    The best part of creating a budget? You would be amazed at the confidence you can build if you can stick to a simple plan for your money.

    For a step-by-step guide on how to create a Budget After Thinking, read my post here and follow-up posts here and here.

    My budgeting philosophy is premised upon your actual spending habits and realistic adjustments. In other words, forget about aiming for predetermined, generic goals like saving 20% of your income. 

    I’ve taught enough law students and lawyers to know that these rigid, predetermined targets don’t work. With massive student loan debt and soaring costs of living, generic savings targets just aren’t helpful. 

    If you aim for some predetermined amount, you’ll end up cutting out everything you like spending money on to the point where you will resent your budget. Then, you’ll give up on your budget and fall back to your old habits.

    The beauty of creating a Budget After Thinking is that it is based upon a baseline budget of your actual, current spending habits. 

    In evaluating your current habits, you can then make thoughtful and realistic adjustments to that budget that will actually last. Through this process, you can accomplish the main goal of generating more fuel for your ultimate financial goals. That might mean building up your cash fortress or investing for long term goals.

    Two simple questions to evaluate your financial position.

    Let’s revisit our two simple questions:

    1. What happens if something goes wrong, like you lose your job or you have an unexpected medical expense?
    2. Can you take advantage if an incredible investment opportunity presented itself?

    The more cash you have on hand, the better you’ll feel about your answers to these two questions. That doesn’t mean you should stop investing, but it does mean that you can reallocate some of your excess money to savings.

    When you have cash, you can survive without losing all that you’ve built up. You can thrive by taking advantage of unexpected opportunities. In other words, create excess cash to survive and thrive.

    This concept is particularly important if you’re at all concerned about the current state of world affairs.

    If you’re not a fan of cash, drop a comment below and let me know more about your approach.

  • Why Wouldn’t You Want to be Good With Money?

    Why Wouldn’t You Want to be Good With Money?

    Do you want to be good with money?

    It’s not a trick question.

    I absolutely want to be good with money.

    Money is the tool that will allow me to spend more time with my family.

    It will allow me to spend more time pursuing meaningful work.

    When I’m not exerting mental energy stressing about money, I can exert that mental energy on my relationships and passions.

    So, do I want to be good with money?

    Absolutely, I do!

    People who want to be good with money sometimes get a bad rap.

    Unfortunately, there’s a common misconception that people who care about money are bad people. Or, it makes you greedy.

    In fact, I was called a “Greedy Dragon” earlier this year by an online troll because I own rental properties. I actually took that one as a compliment because I love dragons.

    To that point, have you ever noticed how clichés about money often feature a cocky guy driving a sports car and wearing a fancy suit?

    That kind of depiction is so wrong it makes me huff. Like, out loud, huff. 

    The reality is that guy doesn’t want to be good with money at all. As soon as he earns money, he spends it on liabilities like clothes and cars. His main focus is on what people think of him, not his financial security.

    Of course, that’s not what being good with money is about. Not even close.

    You probably know people who think about money like this. These same people think that money is evil and so is anyone who has it.

    People who think that money is somehow evil don’t understand what money is.

    They make excuses for why they don’t invest in their own financial wellness. They convince themselves that there are more important things to think about than money.

    The flawed logic goes something like: “That guy only thinks about money. I have better things to worry about. Besides, I don’t need money to be happy. I don’t even like material things.”

    Since you’re reading a personal finance blog, I’m guessing that you don’t share that attitude. You’ve most likely come to recognize that being good with money is an essential life skill.

    You also recognize that being “good with money” is not the same thing as “making a lot of money.”

    A lot of lawyers make good money but aren’t good with money.

    I know plenty of lawyers who make a lot of money. That doesn’t mean they’re good with money. Far from it.

    This is a problem because our profession can be very taxing. We tend to work long hours under stressful conditions.

    This means time away from our families. It means less time available to exercise, cook healthy meals, and sleep. You already know how important these things are to a healthy life.  

    Sadly, the nature of our profession means that lawyers have high rates of alcohol abuse and depression.

    In a prominent study, the American Bar Association and the Hazelden Betty Ford Foundation found rates of alcohol abuse and depression among lawyers are among the highest of any career field in the U.S.

    Studying nearly 13,000 attorneys, the authors concluded:

    Substantial rates of behavioral health problems were found, with 20.6% screening positive for hazardous, harmful, and potentially alcohol-dependent drinking. Men had a higher proportion of positive screens, and also younger participants and those working in the field for a shorter duration… 

    Levels of depression, anxiety, and stress among attorneys were significant, with 28%, 19%, and 23% experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and stress, respectively.

    The authors further concluded:

    Attorneys experience problematic drinking that is hazardous, harmful, or otherwise consistent with alcohol use disorders at a higher rate than other professional populations. Mental health distress is also significant.

    As a lawyer, and someone who comes from a big family of lawyers, these conclusions terrify me.

    red fancy car representing whether you want to be good with money which means investing in your financial wellness.
    Photo by Serge Kutuzov on Unsplash

    Personal financial stress on top of professional stress is a recipe for disaster. 

    Now, I don’t know how to address all of the reasons why lawyers are struggling. I don’t think any one person has the answers.

    But, I want to do my part.

    What I do know is that layering our personal finance stress on top of our professional stress is a recipe for disaster.

    That’s why I’m so passionate about teaching financial wellness to law students and lawyers. 

    Here’s the way I see it: if I can help alleviate your money stress at home, you won’t be distracted by that money stress when you’re at work.

    That means you can more efficiently and productively serve your clients.

    Not only does that benefit your clients and your firm, it benefits you.

    How?

    When you can work free of personal distractions, you can work more efficiently and productively. The end game is that you have more energy and time for your relationships and passions outside of work.

    And, that’s what being good with money is all about.

    Does any of that sound evil to you?

    So, what can you do if you want to work your financial wellness?

    You’re in the right place.

    I have a three-step plan to get you on your way.

    Step 1: Foster a positive money mindset.

    The first step is to foster a positive money mindset. Without establishing why you want to be good with money, none of the specific skills and recommendations will matter.

    Too many people want to jump right to investing and buying rental properties. Financial wellness doesn’t work like that.

    You need to start at the beginning. That means money mindset.

    In my blog, I write regularly about money mindset. You can learn all about developing a strong money mindset by reading my posts here.

    Additionally, if you are interested in checking out one of my favorite money mindset books, you can find my top recommendations here.

    Step 2: Find out where all your money is going.

    The next step is to evaluate where your money is actually going each month. Once you know where your money is going, you can come up with a realistic plan that moves you closer to reaching your financial goals.

    I call this process your Budget After Thinking.

    For a step-by-step guide on how to create a Budget After Thinking, read my post here and follow-up posts here and here.

    You might be wondering what makes my budget process different from any other budget.

    My budgeting philosophy is premised upon your actual spending habits and realistic adjustments. 

    In other words, forget about aiming for predetermined, generic goals like saving 20% of your income.

    I’ve taught enough law students and lawyers to know that these rigid, predetermined targets don’t work.

    With massive student loan debt and soaring costs of living, generic savings targets just don’t work.

    If you aim for some predetermined amount, you’ll end up cutting out everything you like spending money on to the point where you will resent your budget. Then, you’ll give up on your budget and fall back to your old habits.

    The beauty of creating a Budget After Thinking is that it is based upon a baseline budget of your actual, current spending habits.

    In evaluating your current habits, you can then make thoughtful and realistic adjustments to that budget that will actually last. Through this process, you can accomplish the main goal of generating more fuel for your ultimate financial goals.

    And that leads us to the third and final step to begin establishing strong personal finance skills.

    Step 3: Use financial calculators for concrete motivation.

    Online Calculators are some of the most powerful motivational tools for developing financial wellness.

    Check out our Think and Talk Money calculators for concrete motivation to allocate more of your monthly income to your financial goals.

    When you play around with these calculators, you will quickly see how even seemingly small adjustments to your Budget After Thinking will pay massive dividends in the long run.

    Remember, the goal of your Budget After Thinking is to generate more fuel for your future goals. What exactly does that mean?

    This is where using a good financial calculator pays off. 

    For example, let’s say you cut $200 of spending per month and invested that money in an S&P 500 index fund with average historical returns of 10%.

    Look at the results using the Think and Talk Money Compound Interest Calculator:

    If you invested just that $200 each month for the next 30 years, you would have $394,785!

    And, that’s based on contributing only $72,000 of your own money. The rest is interest you earned for doing nothing.

    Take a second to let that sink in: You’d have nearly $400,000 in your investment account all because you created a Budget After Thinking.

    If that doesn’t motivate you to make some thoughtful adjustments to your spending, I don’t know what will.

    Now is the perfect time to invest in your financial wellness.

    Now is the time to think back on the past year and remember all your wins. But, don’t forget about your mistakes. Those mistakes are how we learn.

    If you’re not confident with your personal finances, there’s no better time than now to start developing your skills.

    Whether we like it or not, money touches every facet of our lives. 

    When you take control of your money, you’ll see that your productivity at work improves.

    Your relationships outside of work will improve. 

    I’d even go so far as to say that you’ll start to believe in yourself more. You may even find the courage to follow a different path in life you hadn’t previously explored.

    It all starts with wanting to be good with money.

    Are you ready?