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  • Practice Strong Money Fundamentals Before Investment Dreams

    Practice Strong Money Fundamentals Before Investment Dreams

    When I teach my personal finance seminar to lawyers or law students, I typically reach out ahead of time asking about topics of interest.

    The most common response I get is something like, “I want to learn about investing.”

    The other common response is, “I want to invest in real estate.”

    I totally get it. Investing in the stock market and owning real estate are sexy topics.

    Without a doubt, these are both important topics to cover in a personal finance seminar. We spend a lot of time in my course and here in the blog talking about investing and owning real estate.

    Of course, the best way to generate wealth is through consistent investments over a long time horizon.

    So, my students are asking the right questions when they are concerned about investing and real estate.

    But, they’re skipping a few crucial steps.

    The thing is, investing is actually the easy part.

    The hard part is constantly generating enough money to fuel those investments.

    That’s why investing and owning real estate are “Day 2 topics.” On Day 1, we have to build the foundation.

    Think about it like this:

    • Before we can invest, we need excess money to invest.
    • To have excess money to invest, we need a budget that actually works.
    • For a budget that actually works, we need clear motivations.
    • Clear motivations means a strong money mindset.

    Can you spot the issue of investing without a solid foundation?

    When my students ask me a question about how to start investing, I tend to respond with a question of my own:

    “How much savings does your budget generate each month?”

    Yes, I know. It’s so annoying to answer a question with a question.

    This particular question usually leads to a double dose of annoyance from my students.

    My students are first annoyed that I ignored their question about investing. They didn’t come to me to talk about something boring, like budgeting.

    They want to know about the exciting stuff, like earning huge returns in the stock market.

    Next, after this initial annoyance fades away, another form of annoyance sets in.

    My students get annoyed because they can’t actually answer the question.

    They realize they have no idea how much money they’re saving each month because they don’t have a budget.

    That’s a problem.

    Not having a budget is a problem for anyone who wants to consistently invest.

    To be a successful investor, you need to consistently fuel your investments. There will be ups and downs in the markets. That’s to be expected.

    Your job is to stay in the game and keep feeding your accounts.

    For example, most of us can be successful investors by simply investing in an index fund, like VTSAX.

    Once we’ve selected that investment, our job is to constantly add money to your investment account.

    That means having a budget that works.

    If you skip this part of the process, sure, you may be savvy enough to open and initially fund the account. But, my prediction is you won’t be fueling that account regularly.

    Having a budget for your personal finances is even more important when it comes to owning real estate.

    Investing in real estate means running a business. Money comes in and money goes out. To be successful, you have to make sure that more money comes in than goes out.

    This is obvious stuff, right?

    The same logic applies to your personal budget: if you want to get ahead in life, more money needs to come in than goes out.

    The problem is most people have a hard enough time managing their personal finances. How are they going to handle managing business finances?

    That’s why I ask my students, “If you haven’t mastered this idea with your personal budget, are you sure you want to take on the stress and risk of an investment property?”

    It’s usually around this point when my students start nodding in understanding.

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    Before focusing on stocks or real estate, make sure your personal finances are in order.

    My goal here is not to dissuade you from investing in stocks or real estate.

    We all need to invest if we want to generate wealth.

    My goal is to help you avoid the mistakes that so many of us make in the early stages of our careers.

    One of the biggest mistakes I see is people wanting to jump to the final steps in the process without starting from a strong foundation.

    If you’ve been following along on the blog, you likely noticed the progression in topics we’ve covered. This is the same progression that we follow in my personal finance course.

    You’ll see links to each one of these topics featured on the top of the Think and Talk Money homepage:

    We initially covered each of those topics in order from top to bottom. First, we talked extensively about the mental side of money. Without having your money mindset in the right place, nothing else matters.

    We then spent a lot of time talking about personal finance fundamentals, like budgeting, saving, and handling credit and debt responsibly. 

    Only after having our personal finance foundation in place did we talk about more fun concepts like investing and real estate.

    There’s a reason we’ve covered these topics in this order. 

    If your money mindset is not in the right place, you won’t be able to stay on budget. 

    If you can’t stay on budget, you’ll likely fall into debt. 

    When you’re falling deeper and deeper into debt, it doesn’t make a lot of sense to prioritize investing.

    Why bother with investing if any profits are just going to disappear?

    Let’s focus on that last point for a minute. 

    What sense does it make to invest if you’ve never proven to yourself that you can use those investment gains responsibly?

    I never want to see people take on the risks of investing just to have any profits disappear because they don’t have a strong personal finance foundation in place.

    For example, imagine someone does the work to find and sustain a good rental property that generates $1,000 per month in cash flow. 

    It’s not easy to earn that much. It takes time and effort, not to mention the risk involved.

    If that same person blows the $1,000 he earned on things he doesn’t care about, what was the point? 

    Why take on the risk and do the work if the money will all be gone by the end of the month?

    Unfortunately, this is how many people go through life. They work hard, make good money, and then have nothing to show for it.

    I don’t want that to be your fate. I want you to have a plan for your money before you earn it. 

    That means sticking to a budget that consistently moves you closer to living freely on your terms.

    Most of us don’t know where our next dollar is going. 

    The reason most people never get ahead with their finances is because they don’t have a plan for where their next dollar is going. 

    Their income hits their checking account, they spend it on this or that, and pretty soon that money has disappeared. They haven’t used the money to advance any of their priorities.

    It’s just gone.

    To me, this is one of the most important money mistakes that we need to fix right away. We definitely need to fix it before we start fantasizing about big investment returns. 

    If not, you’ll just be making the same mistakes, just with more money to lose.

    Having a plan for our money, before we earn it, is essential if we want to reach our goals. With a plan, we can eliminate the disappearing dollars with confidence that our money is being used to serve our purposes.

    How do you create a plan for your money before you earn it?

    You need to have a budget.

    If you don’t currently have a budget that results in excess money at the end of each month, I encourage you to start there before thinking bout real estate.

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    When you have strong fundamentals in place, money becomes fun.

    Being good with money doesn’t have to be stressful. Once you have the fundamentals in place, you’ll start to see how each dollar you earn gets you one step closer to financial freedom.

    Before you think about investing in stocks or in real estate, make sure that your personal finances are in order. 

    Otherwise, the effort, stress, and risk of investing is not worth it. Any dollar you earn is likely to disappear as quickly as it comes in.

    To prevent that from happening, establish good money habits before you buy real estate. 

    In the end, you’ll be so happy that you did.

    For any investors out there, did you jump in before establishing strong personal money habits first?

    Did any benefits you earned from investing simply disappear because you didn’t have a plan for those dollars ahead of time?

    What advice do you have for beginners thinking about investing?

    Let us know in the comments below.

  • That’s a Wrap: Another Successful Personal Finance Seminar

    That’s a Wrap: Another Successful Personal Finance Seminar

    I just wrapped up another personal finance seminar with a great group of law students. After two full days of leading class, my voice is hoarse and my body is sore.

    And, I had so much fun.

    Can’t wait to do it again!

    Here’s a recap of the ground we covered.

    If you’re interested in learning more about my personal finance course for law students and young lawyers, please reach out.

    I’ve taught law students and lawyers, both in-person and virtually, and would be happy to discuss how I can help you or your group.

    My favorite part of class is when my students share their Tiara Goals.

    We spent the first portion of class talking about money mindset. Without the right motivations, none of the other tools matter.

    Without a doubt, this is always my favorite part of class.

    When I say I’m on a mission to convince you that talking money is not taboo, I think of my students sharing their goals.

    I get so energized by hearing their goals. My students report the same sentiment after learning what drives their friends and peers.

    Over the years, my students have shared countless impactful stories. As unique as these goals can be, it’s remarkable how most of us want the same things in life.

    Year after year, I hear the same motivating forces:

    • Spend more time with my family.
    • Travel and enjoy experiences around the world.
    • Stay healthy and fit.
    • Provide for my children and my aging parents.
    • Work for a cause I believe in.
    • Have time to volunteer.
    • Enjoy more hobbies like baking, golf, jogging, sewing, and pickleball.

    I also regularly hear one thing that my students, and the rest of us, don’t want:

    • I don’t want to be stressed about money.

    Isn’t it telling that year after year, most of us want the same things in life?

    I’ve yet to hear anyone say that they dream about working endless hours and not taking their PTO.

    Be specific, but not too specific, when you think about financial freedom.

    When we talk about what we do with financial freedom in class, I encourage my students to get specific without being so precise that the goal becomes restrictive.

    When we’re thinking about goals related to financial freedom, the idea is to focus more on big-picture, core values.

    There will be a time and a place to strategize how to get there. The point here is to help define what you’re even trying to get in the first place.

    For example, instead of “spending more time with family,” I would suggest something like, “never miss my child’s soccer game or dance recital because of work.”

    Instead of “travel around the world,” I would suggest “at least one overseas trip of at least 2 weeks per year.”

    Adding that little bit of specificity will help you visualize what you’re striving for with your money decisions.

    Don’t get discouraged if you think you are not close to financial freedom.

    Even when you feel like financial freedom is only a distant dream for you, it’s important to actively think about what you want out of life.

    I’d even suggest that the further away you feel from financial freedom, the more important it is to think about what it would mean for you.

    When you’re at your lowest point, visualizing what you would do with financial freedom is a helpful escape.

    If you haven’t ever actively thought about what you would do with financial freedom, hopefully hearing about what my students shared in class will encourage you to do so.

    Don’t forget to write down whatever you come up with.

    I suggest you share your version of Tiara Goals with your friends and loved ones. It’s OK to keep some of your goals private.

    By sharing, you will get the benefit of them cheering you on. You’ll also hopefully encourage them to share their goals with you, which can be very inspiring.

    Matthew Adair preparing slides for a personal finance seminar for law students and lawyers showing that after completing another personal finance seminar with a great group of law students, I feel energized to use my money as a tool to build a life I'm proud of.

    Budgeting is all about generating fuel for your ultimate goals in life.

    Following our chat about money mindset, we launched into budgeting.

    The essential purpose of making a budget is to generate fuel for your ultimate goals in life. This fuel is what feeds your savings, pays off debt, and grows your investments.

    It’s not easy to track every penny. It’s not enjoyable to realize that your dollars are disappearing on stuff you don’t care about. But, these are crucial steps on the way to financial independence.

    Learning how to create a budget that you’ll actually stick to is so important that we practiced implementing a Budget After Thinking in class.

    Debt and credit are essential parts of a healthy financial life.

    After focusing on the fundamentals of budgeting, we moved on to debt and credit.

    Most of us have (or will have) some form of debt, whether it’s credit card debt, student loan debt, or mortgage debt.

    With the right tools, we can attack that debt and eliminate it as quickly as possible.

    Just as important, we can appreciate how we got into debt in the first place so we don’t make the same mistakes again.

    When we talked about credit in class, we emphasized that credit impacts our largest purchases in life, like buying a home or a car. For that reason, it’s essential to understand how our credit history impacts our credit score.

    From there, we explored why credit cards are a privilege.

    I am a big fan of using credit cards responsibly to earn free travel. If you don’t overspend and pay your bills in full every month, credit cards can be a useful tool.

    Student loans are front of mind for most law students and young lawyers.

    Of course, no personal finance seminar geared towards law students and young lawyers would be complete without addressing student loans.

    This year, we focused on the changes to federal student loans. We learned how to navigate paying back loans while advancing some other important financial goals, like investing.

    Building wealth through investing.

    Following our conversation on student loans, it was time to talk about building wealth through investing.

    When it comes to investing, the key is to let compound interest work its magic.

    With time on your side, you can concentrate on low fees, the proper asset allocation, and consistently fueling your investments.

    Using an online calculator, we saw how even seemingly small contributions to our investments will make a huge difference over the long run.

    This point demonstrates why we begin with budgeting before we talk about investing. Remember, one of the main purposes of your budget is to create money for your investments.

    Every dollar that you invest rather than spend early in your career will lead to massive wealth if given enough time.

    Real estate is my favorite asset class.

    Finally, we discussed real estate, a topic that I am very passionate about.

    We learned how to analyze when the time is right to buy a home (and when not to buy a home). We then saw how having a strong money foundation is key to qualifying for the best mortgages.

    From there, we moved on to real estate investing. With real estate, investors benefit from cash flow, appreciation, debt pay down, and tax breaks.

    For people pursuing financial independence, there may not be a more powerful strategy than buying a small multifamily property, living in one of the units, and renting out the others. This strategy is known in some circles as “house hacking.”

    With this one decision, you can eliminate your housing costs entirely, which is traditionally the largest expense in our budgets.

    That means you can repurpose the money you had been spending on housing to other goals, like paying off student loan debt.

    At the same time, you have a long-term asset that you can keep for years after you decide to move out. That asset can kick off monthly cash flow, which can be saved for other investments or used to pay for current living expenses.

    Matthew Adair saying cheers after completing another personal finance seminar with a great group of law students, I feel energized to use my money as a tool to build a life I'm proud of.

    Money is nothing more than a tool.

    In the end, I encouraged my students to recognize that money is nothing more than a tool that can be used to build a life on our terms.

    When we learn how to use money in this way, we control the circumstances. The circumstances don’t control us.

    Being good with money involves consistent choices. I can’t make those choices for you, but I can give you the tools to properly think through and evaluate whatever dilemma you face.

    I left my students with one final request: keep the conversation going with your loved ones and friends.

    Talking about money is not taboo. We can all learn so much from each other if we are just willing to share and listen.

    There’s no reason to struggle with money decisions alone.

    Our journeys towards financial independence should not be solo missions.

    We can achieve financial wellness together.

    All we need to do is think and talk about money.

    If you’re interested in learning more about my personal finance course for law students and young lawyers, please reach out.

    I’ve taught law students and lawyers, both in-person and virtually, and would be happy to discuss how I can help you or your group.