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  • Spend Money Based on Your Wealth Not Your Income

    Spend Money Based on Your Wealth Not Your Income

    Let’s say you are fresh out of law school working in big law.

    At the current salary scale, that means you’re making $225,000 in salary, plus another $25,000 or so in bonuses. We’ll call it $250,000 in total compensation.

    That’s a lot of money. 

    It’s so much money, in fact, that you convince yourself you can make some lifestyle changes.

    For starters, you figure it’s time to leave the old law school roommates behind and move into a nicer, but smaller apartment by yourself.

    Even though the tradeoff for living by yourself is paying more in rent, you justify it because your income is so high.

    Besides paying more in rent, you can’t help but order in more meals now that you’re earning a high income. Plus, you’re working long hours, afterall. Who has time to cook?

    Even though you survived on frozen chicken breasts in law school, that won’t cut it anymore now that you’re a practicing attorney.

    Finally, you start taking Ubers to get around town. It’s only $15 per ride, and you make more than $20,000 per month.

    Even though you took the bus or the “L” home in law school, you can afford a ride! Uber it is!

    Does this sound familiar to you?

    Maybe it sounds completely ridiculous?

    Personally, this story is all too familiar.

    When I graduated law school, I spent money based on my income instead of my wealth.

    As soon as I started making money after law school, I started spending on things I really didn’t need.

    About a year after I graduated, I moved into an apartment by myself. I started spending more freely. I took taxis (no Ubers back then) when I could easily have hopped on the bus or walked.

    What made it worse in my case was that I was not even making big law money. At the time, I was a judicial law clerk making around $70,000 per year.

    It was because I was careless with my money that I fell into credit card debt so quickly after beginning my career as an attorney.

    On top of my poor spending choices, I had student loan debt. Because I had debt and hardly any assets to my name, my net worth was less than zero dollars.

    That means I had negative wealth, even though I was earning a decent income.

    This is all background for the main question behind today’s post:

    Do you spend money based on your income or based on your wealth?

    Let’s revisit our fresh big law attorney who’s earning $250,000 per year.

    Earlier, I said “That’s a lot of money.”

    And, it is.

    But, what I should have said was, “That’s a lot of income.”

    See, earning a lot of money is not the same as having a lot of money.

    There’s a key difference.

    Income is temporary. There’s no guarantee that your income will always be there. People lose their jobs all the time. People also switch careers, which can result in lower income. 

    Wealth is your financial foundation. When you have money, meaning you don’t spend it, you can build wealth.

    Of course, when we talk about wealth, we are talking about all of your assets minus your liabilities. This is your net worth.

    When your liabilities are greater than your assets, you have a negative net worth, like I did when I graduated law school. By the way, the same is true for most people when they graduate law school.

    A high income is not a bad thing, but it can be a wasted thing. 

    A high income means you have a lot of money coming in.

    That’s not a bad thing, but it can be a wasted thing.

    What you do with that money is what determines your wealth and financial progress.

    If you use your high income to acquire assets, you are winning the game. The same goes for paying off your liabilities.

    If you use your high income to buy expensive things, you’ll be stuck in place. At the end of the year, you’ll likely be in no better shape than someone making a fraction of what you make.

    That’s why I prefer to think about how much money I keep each year, instead of how much I make.

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    But, I thought high earners deserve to splurge!

    You may think that a new lawyer earning $250,000 per year should be splurging on life’s finer things.

    Would your opinion change if you acknowledged that lawyer’s net worth is a negative number?

    Think about it: most new lawyers leave law school with hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. They also have little to no assets. That means they have a negative net worth. 

    Should someone with a negative net worth really be splurging on a fancy apartment?

    If that person is looking to build a solid financial foundation, the answer is obviously, “No.”

    This person should continue living like a law student and spending in accordance with his net worth, not his income.

    I recommend you use your high income to acquire assets and eliminate liabilities.

    Don’t get me wrong. I am not suggesting that earning a lot of money is a bad thing. 

    Having a high income is a major benefit.

    In fact, I recommend that all of my law students take the high paying job right out of school, if they can get it. 

    A high income means you can pay off your debt faster. It means you can build up your emergency savings and fund your investment accounts sooner.

    There can be no doubt that a high income can accelerate your progress to financial freedom.

    You just need to use that income to acquire assets and eliminate liabilities.

    As you take those steps, you’ll see your net worth climb, and you’ve earned the right to start spending more.

    We all know that it’s bad to live beyond our means. The problem is we don’t evaluate our means properly.

    You don’t have to be a personal finance expert to know that living beyond your means is a bad idea.

    Most of us intuitively understand that we should live within our means. Actually doing so can prove to be more problematic.

    Part of the explanation may be that we don’t think of our spending in terms of our net worth.

    We may not appreciate that if we are spending extravagantly while our net worth is still low, or even negative, we are living beyond our means. It doesn’t matter what our income level is.

    That’s why I recommend you spend based on your level of wealth (your net worth) instead of your income.

    Of course, this lesson applies to all of us, not just recent graduates. 

    This is challenging for lawyers and professionals who feel compelled to keep up with the Joneses

    When you’re making $750,000 per year, you may think you need to buy the $100,000 luxury car. Or, you may not hesitate to spend $10,000 to upgrade your family’s plane tickets to first class.

    But, can you really justify that level of spending when your net worth does not match up with your income? 

    What happens if that income goes away?

    Instead, you should prioritize saving and investing until your net worth justifies that higher spending threshold.

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    Spending money based on your wealth does not spending from your wealth.

    When I say spend money based on your wealth, I don’t mean that you should spend from your wealth.

    In other words, this is not a post on spending down your wealth in retirement.

    Rather, what I mean is that you should consider your net worth before deciding how much of your income you are comfortable spending. 

    For example, if you earn $250,000 per year from your job and have a negative or low net worth, you should continue living like a law student.

    If you earn $250,000 per year and have a net worth of $1M, you would be justified in splurging from time-to-time.

    If you earn $250,000 per year and have a net worth of $10M, you shouldn’t worry about spending extravagantly with all of that income.

    Why not worry about spending so much?

    The reality is that your investment earnings on $10M will far exceed your $250,000 income from work.

    Even a 5% investment return on $10M would earn $500,000 per year, double what you earn from your job. You actually might start thinking about why you still have that job in the first place.

    These numbers are just for illustration purposes. Still, the idea is that your spending decisions should factor in your net worth at least as much, if not more so, than your income.

    Don’t ignore your wealth when it comes to spending. 

    Whenever you are evaluating your current financial position, especially your spending decisions, I recommend that you focus on your wealth at least as much as your income.

    Income is temporary. It can go away at any moment.

    If you are fortunate enough to earn a high income, use that high income to acquire assets and pay down liabilities. That means you’ll have to avoid spending extravagantly until your level of wealth can justify it.

    Wealth is foundational. Yes, there will be drops in the markets and your net worth can decrease. That is to be expected. 

    However, if you focus on spending in line with your net worth, you’ll naturally adjust your spending if your net worth temporarily drops. When it rises again, you can justify spending more. The key is to be flexible.

    If you can think in these terms, you will build a strong financial foundation that will give you choices down the road.

    At the end of the day, financial independence is all about choices. 

    The people who create choices for themselves will be the ones who don’t have to worry about money as they move through life.

    They will be the ones with true wealth that supports extravagant spending, if they choose. 

    That’s not a bad thing.

    Do you know people who spend money based on their income instead of their wealth?

    Why do you think people fall into that trap?

    Let us know in the comments below.

  • Q&A: Look for a Valuable Side Hustle

    Q&A: Look for a Valuable Side Hustle

    In this week’s Q&A, we talk about how the timing was right to launch Think and Talk Money, why you should consider a side hustle, and what comes next for the website.

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    I had been thinking about writing a book or starting a website for a couple years. Over the holidays, my dad gave me the final push I needed.

    We were casually chatting while the kids played in the other room. Out of nowhere, he said, “Matt, you should do it.”

    Do what?

    “You should write a book.”

    Oh, no biggie.

    I didn’t expect him to say that. He went on to explain how you get to a certain age and you look back on life and wonder where it all went. You think about all the things that you wanted to do but never got around to doing.

    No regrets, blogging then book.

    He knew I had been thinking about writing a book for a while and didn’t want me to regret not doing it.

    I thought about it and realized he was right. I would never forgive myself if I didn’t take this chance.

    Now that I’ve thrown this out there, I have to do it, right?

    There’s never a perfect time in life. If I didn’t start Think and Talk Money now, I might never have gotten around to it. Something always comes up. It’s too easy to make excuses.

    It’s true we have a lot going on. Fortunately, I had a system already in place that gives me time to write thanks to Hal Elrod’s The Morning Miracle.

    I hesitate to say a certain book “changed my life.” This might be one of them.

    For almost 10 years now, I’ve been waking up at 5:30 a.m. to read, journal, and relax. It’s so beneficial to have that time for myself, especially now with kids, before the day gets away from me.

    To learn more about the benefits of a daily morning ritual, check out Elrod’s miracle morning website.

    Since launching Think and Talk Money, I use my mornings to blog instead of reading. I like teaching and writing about personal finance, so my mornings are still enjoyable.

    That being said, I may need to adjust the schedule to read the latest book in the Empryean series, Onyx Storm.

    Short answer: I love side hustles.

    We’ll spend some time in a future post talking about all the advantages of having a side hustle.

    The obvious advantage is you can make more money. The important thing is what you do with that money to make the side hustle worth it. A side hustle is another time commitment, after all. If you’re going to take on the responsibility, make sure it counts.

    Before you consider a side hustle, have a plan in place for why you want additional money. Are you looking to pay down debt faster? Save for a wedding? Invest in your first rental property?

    One of my favorite experiences teaching personal finance to law students involved a side hustle. A couple of years ago, a student approached me during a break and told me about his credit card debt. It had been weighing heavily on him.

    After our discussion about side hustles, he committed himself to driving for DoorDash and using the income to pay off his credit card balance.

    Six months later he sought me out to share that the plan worked. His side hustle allowed him to pay off his credit card in less than six months. All while working a full-time job and attending law school par-time. I couldn’t have been happier.

    To help you think through why you might want a side hustle, check out these three posts:

    BTW, you’re not too busy or important for a side hustle.

    Some people reading this will automatically think, “I’m way too busy to even think about another job.”

    In my personal finance class for law students, we spend a lot of time challenging that notion. Very few people- and I mean very few- are too important or too busy to take on a side hustle.

    You may think you’re one of those “too important” people. I would challenge you to assess whether you’re confusing “too important” with “too stressed.”

    Setting that conundrum aside, the ideal side hustle is something you enjoy doing that can earn you extra money at the same time. Some examples my students have come up with in class include:

    • Bartending. Entice your friends to come to your bar by offering cheap drinks. You get to hang out with them and get paid at the same time.
    • Fitness instructor. Instead of paying $48 for the spin class you love, become the instructor and get paid to lead the class.
    • Dog Walker. If you love dogs and don’t currently have one of your own, what better way to fill that void in your life while making money. The same applies to babysitting.
    • Home Baker. Make homemade treats with your kids and sell them to parents who don’t have the time.

    There is always a way to make more money.

    The point is there are always ways to make more money by doing things you like to do anyways. Even if you’re busy. You just have to exert some mental energy to figure out how.

    I’m reminded of another conversation my dad and I had when I was in high school.

    Growing up, my siblings and I were busy kids. Sports, clubs, performances, classes, you name it. I made a remark to my dad about it at one point.

    He responded that being busy wasn’t a bad thing because you don’t have time to fool around. When you have no choice other than to stay focused, you actually perform better in all facets of life.

    You’re not thrown off by distractions because you’re locked in on accomplishing your goals.

    Smiling female bartender talking with customers as her side hustle to make extra money learned on Think and Talk Money

    After launching Think and Talk Money, I feel a heightened sense of focus. It’s benefitting me in all of my pursuits. I take care of business as best I can, while prioritizing my family and my health.

    I can see your eye rolls through your screen.

    This guys is nuts. He’s a workaholic. He has no life.

    The people who know me best would beg to differ.

    They might just tell you that I’m striving to build a life where I spend my working hours doing what is meaningful to me.

    I spend my personal time with the people that are meaningful to me.

    Yes, I’ve used HELOCs, which stands for Home Equity Lines of Credit, to scale my real estate portfolio.

    This question leads to so many concepts we need to discuss, from debt and credit to investing. We’ll come back to HELOCs more fully in a separate post.

    The bottom line is using HELOCs to scale your investment portfolio is a more advanced strategy that I would not recommend for everyone. I probably wouldn’t recommend it for most people, even experienced real estate investors.

    I say that for good reason. When you hear HELOC, think debt. For many of us, debt is problematic and leads to negative emotions.

    I experienced these negative emotions associated with debt. I only got comfortable with taking on debt as I learned to trust myself again with the responsibility.

    HELOCs are like credit cards, just in another form of debt.

    My advice: if you have proven to yourself that you can responsibly handle debt, using a HELOC may be a worthwhile strategy for you.

    By responsible with debt, I mean:

    If you satisfy all of the above, a HELOC may be useful to scale your real estate portfolio. If you’re thinking about using a HELOC in the near future and want to talk it out, please feel free to reach out.

    It’s only been five weeks, but I’m happy I took the chance to launch Think and Talk Money.

    It’s been fun.

    And, it’s been hard.

    First, the fun stuff. I’ve enjoyed writing and talking about personal finance concepts that are important to me. I’ve especially enjoyed all the interactions with our readers.

    One unexpected element I’ve appreciated is the sense of accomplishment that comes with publishing every post. This is very different from my experience as a lawyer where we typically work on a case for years before its conclusion.

    I’ve also had fun writing in a new style. I haven’t ever blogged before. I haven’t done any writing other than legal writing since college. If you’ve ever had the pleasure of reading a legal brief or court opinion, first off, I’m sorry. Second, you understand how different legal writing is from blog writing.

    Even though the writing styles are different, there is certainly some overlap in the fundamentals. My aim in both styles of writing is to be clear, concise, and informative. I hope to be somewhat interesting, as well.

    As a blogger, I’m still finding my voice, as they say.

    It can be challenging to make core personal finance concepts- like budgeting and saving money- educational, simple, and entertaining. If I’m doing my job, then my personal finance content should also be relatable and understandable.

    Please let me know you have any feedback on what’s working (or not working for you)!

    Now, for the hard stuff.

    My wife and I launched Think and Talk Money with zero knowledge, skills, or experience in starting a website.

    Can you tell? Be nice.

    We have no tech background whatsoever. Two months ago, I had no idea what SEO, caching, or plugins were.

    We also have no design or marketing background. I didn’t even have social media (other than LinkedIn) until we launched. The fact that we have 129 Instagram followers (don’t laugh) seems like a small miracle to me.

    My first post on LinkedIn had more than 12,000 impressions in the first few days. I still have no idea what that means, but it’s exciting!

    If you’ve ever started a website, you know exactly what I mean. Creating the content is only the first step. So much more goes into it behind the scenes. We’re still only scratching the surface.

    To sum it up, the tech stuff has been challenging and time consuming. We’ve learned so much already but have so much more to learn.

    Thank you to everyone who has reached out with tips and suggestions!

    I completely understand why this is an important question to think about. The truth is we’re just getting started and haven’t thought about Think and Talk Money in terms of an end game.

    I’ve always liked to teach and write, and this lets me do more of both. For now, our mission is to introduce the most important concepts of personal finance through the blog.

    We post three times per week on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.

    Some of the posts cover core personal finance topics in depth. Other posts are more targeted and address specific strategies or lessons.

    A writer engrossed in their work at a desk overlooking a tranquil lake, finding inspiration in the natural surroundings to write about personal finance at Think and Talk Money.

    There’s an intentional order to the way we’ve been introducing concepts. The order is important and mirrors the curriculum in my personal finance class for new lawyers.

    We started with money mindset, then moved to budgeting, then moved to savings.

    These are core personal finance concepts that we will always revisit in the blog. If your mind is not in the right place, it doesn’t matter if you know the particulars of how to budget or save.

    We’ll soon move on to topics like debt and credit, investing, and real estate.

    So, what comes next for Think and Talk Money?

    My wife and I are thinking about all the options: podcast, online courses, personal coaching, speaking events, and a book.

    Of all these options, the book might be the surest thing. I’ve wanted to write a book for a long time.

    Whatever happens, we’ll do our best to continue creating valuable content and listen to what our audience wants.

    Let us know if you have any thoughts or ideas on what should come next!