Stop me if you’ve heard this advice before:
“Cancel all your subscriptions and save $1,000 a year!”
“Cut out your morning coffee if you really want to be wealthy!”
“Buy your Christmas presents in January when the sales start!”
Because of advice like this, there’s a common misconception that people who want financial independence have to lead a life of deprivation.
Nope.
I refuse to believe that.
Financial independence about so much more than that.
Financial independence is not reserved for people willing to cut their spending to the bone.
It’s for anyone willing to make intentional money decisions, including the decision to earn more money and not cut spending.
How did financial independence become synonymous with deprivation?
As my three-year-old asks during story time, “And, then there’s a problem?”
Yes, son, there’s a problem.
Too many people believe that financial independence is only about cutting spending.
That’s a big problem that is holding people back.
See, most of us lawyers and professionals work a ton of hours. We are already making major sacrifices.
To throw in major reductions in spending on our way to financial independence is not a worthwhile tradeoff.
Life is too short. None of us are guaranteed tomorrow.
I learned this lesson a long time ago by representing clients with mesothelioma, a sudden and fatal cancer.
That’s why I never encourage anyone to cut out spending on things and experiences that make them happy today.
Does this mean we should all go out and spend every dollar we make?
Of course not.
No matter what, you’ll always need to live within your means.
If you are spending more than you’re earning, you’ll never be financially independent.
However, if you earn decent money and invest it the right way, you will reach financial independence.
And, you don’t need to stop spending money on the way.
FIRE has taken on an unintended meaning.
One of the problems in the personal finance space is that many people first learn about financial independence in the context of FIRE (Financial Independence, Retire Early).
Unfortunately, there’s a stereotype that FIRE is only for people willing to aggressively lower their expenses.
In other words, the mistaken belief is that people who practice FIRE can only survive if they cut out most of life’s luxuries.
Even though this misconception fails to capture the true spirt of FIRE, the damage has already been done.
Too many people who I speak with get so discouraged by hearing “cut, cut, cut!” that they lose all interest in pursuing financial independence.
It’s not that these people are financially irresponsible. They mostly live within their means and save for important goals.
At the same time, they want to enjoy everything that life has to offer. And as mentioned above, I don’t mean enjoy life “years down the road.” They work hard and want to spend money to enjoy life today.
For people like this, FIRE’s perceived focus on deprivation is unappealing.
This is one of the reasons I don’t like to use the word FIRE around here. I prefer FIPE: Financial Independence, Pivot Early.

Have you noticed in the blog that we talk more about investing than cutting expenses?
If you’ve been a consistent reader of the blog, you likely noticed that we haven’t talked much about cutting back on spending lately.
We’ve been focused on creating wealth through investing, whether your preference is to invest in stocks or real estate.
I certainly encourage people to generate as much fuel as possible for their investments, especially early in their careers.
That way, you can benefit from long-term wealth generators like compound interest and appreciation.
Generating more money to invest, of course, involves making spending choices. These types of choices are the essence of the budgeting process.
However, instead of focusing on cutting your expenses to the bone, I recommend you create a reasonable Budget After Thinking that you can actually stick to.
If you eliminate all the fun stuff, no budget will last very long.
In a lot of ways, this advice is like dieting. Sure, you can lose 10 pounds in a few weeks if you eliminate every indulgence. But, how long is that diet going to work?
I recommend that you have a budget that you can stick to long term. Then, commit yourself to fighting lifestyle creep as you start making more money.
If you can do those two things, you don’t have to dramatically cut your expenses.
Yes, you have to keep your spending within reason.
No, you don’t have to cancel all your subscriptions.
Focus on earning more, not just spending less.
A good friend of ours just made $750 by doing one property showing. In total, she probably worked an hour to earn that money.
Compare that to the advice of cutting out your daily coffee ritual. If you consciously deprive yourself of coffee every day for an entire year, you could save about $1,000.
What would you rather do?
Work just a little bit more with a side hustle of your choosing, or cut out something that you enjoy each morning?
Do you really have to think that long about it?
Of course, you already know which option I’m pursuing.

I am a big fan of side hustle.
I’ve had side hustles for just about my entire career as a lawyer.
My first side hustle was as an adjunct professor at a local law school, teaching just one class. I eventually turned that into teaching four classes.
In the meantime, I also launched a rental property business with my wife, now managing 11 units in Chicago and Colorado.
We’re doing this with three young kids at home. I’m not bragging. My point is that I roll my eyes whenever anyone tells me he is too busy to make extra money.
By the way, earning more money does not only apply to side hustles.
There are always ways to make more money within your primary job.
For example, can you earn a larger bonus by performing better?
Can you ask your employer for more responsibilities and a corresponding raise?
Or, can you earn additional money by generating business for your company?
Lawyers, like most professionals, have the ability to earn more money if they generate business. That means bringing in clients.
How can you find these clients?
You can make it a priority to go to more events where you might meet potential clients.
You could launch a blog or create other content to help people find you and know what you do.
Either one of these pursuits could be your side hustle.
There are endless opportunities for anyone that is motivated and is looking to earn more money.
And when you earn that additional money, you’re on your way to financial independence without having to sacrifice the things that make your daily life enjoyable.
OK, but I don’t even like coffee.
I know, I’m picking on coffee. Coffee is an easy target, but it’s just one example.
Maybe coffee is not your problem. Let’s say that you’ve cut out family vacations.
Family vacations can be expensive. There’s no doubt about it.
But instead of eliminating vacations, what if you could find a way to earn an extra $5,000? That could turn into a really nice family vacation.
For some people, this is a no-brainer. They find a way to earn more money.
Other people will simply skip the family vacation because it’s too expensive.
At this stage in my life, I’m not willing to do that. I have three young kids. I already feel like they’re growing up too fast.
A year ago, my daughter wouldn’t let go of my hand when I walked her to school. Now, she’s “too cool” to waive goodbye to Daddy.
The idea of skipping out on family vacations does not appeal to me at all. I know that there will come a day when I would really regret that choice.
Instead of eliminating family vacations, I would rather find a way to make more money.
You can have anything you want; you just can’t have everything.
Warren Buffett famously told his kids that they could have anything they wanted. They just couldn’t have everything.
That sums up my approaching to spending. If there’s something I truly want that doesn’t currently fit in my budget, I would prefer to earn more instead of giving up on having that thing or experience.
I might get there through a side hustle. I might get there through investing. If it’s something I value enough, I will get there one way or the other.
If you focus on your income, not just cutting expenses, you can continue your journey to financial independence without giving up these things that make life special.
Or, you can cut out the coffee and vacations, if that’s your preference.
I’d rather challenge myself to make more money so I don’t have to make those sacrifices.
Do you think financial independence is only for people willing to aggressively cut their spending?
Or, do you agree that financial independence is for anybody willing to work for it?