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  • Happy that I Delayed Financial Independence

    Happy that I Delayed Financial Independence

    I’m further away from financial independence today than I was five years ago.

    You know what’s funny?

    I couldn’t be happier about where I am today.

    Let me explain.

    In 2020, my wife and I had very minimal expenses.

    At the start of 2020, my wife and I were both working as lawyers in Chicago. We lived in an apartment in a 4-flat that we had purchased in 2018. We had no kids at the start of the year, but were about to welcome our first.

    This was a good apartment in a popular part of town. It had 3 bedrooms and 2.5 bathrooms. That was plenty of space for my wife and I, and eventually the two babies we brought home there.

    We purchased this 4-flat from a real estate investor who had done a decent job on the renovation. It had in-unit washer/dryer, modern finishes, and plenty of storage.

    We had a small outdoor patio with enough room for a grill and little table. We also had a garage parking space but ended up parking our 20-year-old car on the street most days.

    When we purchased the building, it was the most expensive 4-flat that had ever been sold in that part of town. It was a bit of a risk to set the high-water mark in the area.

    In the end, the risk was more than worth it.

    Even though the building was expensive for the area, this was not a fancy apartment. This part of town was still up-and-coming. Some people probably thought it was not a nice part of town.

    I doubt many people came over and thought, “Wow, look at this amazing apartment!”

    The more likely reaction was probably something like, “What the heck are they doing?”

    To be fair, I asked myself that question plenty of times.

    So, what were we doing?

    We were paying ourselves to live there.

    Say that again?

    My wife and I paid ourselves to live in that apartment.

    We lived for free. And made a profit at the same time.

    See, the rental income from the other three units covered the entire mortgage plus all expenses for the property.

    But, that’s not all. On top of covering all the expenses, the rental units generated a profit of $1,000 per month on average.

    So, not only did we spend zero dollars each month on housing, we profited $1,000 per month.

    Looking back, getting paid to live in a decent apartment was maybe the best decision we ever made.

    Landlord working outside the office checking his balance and earnings. Getting paid concept. Internet money income. Showing the power of house hacking even if it means delaying financial independence.

    What happens to your finances when you live for free?

    Let’s take a look at how living for free can be a major advantage on your way to financial freedom.

    The common wisdom is for people to spend no more than 30% of their gross income on housing. Regardless of how much you make, that usually means thousands of dollars.

    Because our tenants were paying our living expenses for us, we did not have that expense for the five years we lived in that apartment.

    In other words, we didn’t have to worry about budgeting for housing.

    We also drove a nearly 20-year-old car and could walk to the “L” (Chicago’s subway). We lived in a neighborhood with plenty of nearby restaurants and shops. That meant our transportation costs were next to nothing.

    Because we weren’t paying for housing and had very minimal transportation costs, we could supercharge our savings.

    How much were we able to save?

    Let’s take a look.

    Between 2018 and 2023, my wife and I acquired three buildings and ten apartments in that same neighborhood. We’re very familiar with market rents in the area.

    We rent our apartments for anywhere from $2,300 to $3,600 per month. Our usual tenants are professionals like engineers, lawyers, doctors, consultants, and pilots.

    The unit we were living in from 2018 to 2022 was one of our larger units. At the time, it would have rented for $3,500 per month on average. That equals $42,000 per year to rent that apartment.

    Keep in mind, if someone was paying rent to live there, that would be $42,000 of after-tax money.

    Since we owned the building, we lived there for free. We could save that $42,000 we would have otherwise paid in rent. Instead of spending that savings on things we didn’t need, we were able to save that money for our next real estate investment.

    Plus, we earned $1,000 on average per month while we lived there. That’s an additional $12,000 per year in profit.

    We lived in that unit for almost five years.

    Add it all up and we saved $270,000 by living in that apartment for five years.

    • $42,000 saved rent x 5 years =$210,000.
    • $12,000 profits x 5 years = $60,000.
    • Total savings = $270,000

    We used that $270,000 for a downpayment on a rental condo in Colorado ski country.

    It took five years of living in a decent, but not-awesome, apartment to have a ski condo that will hopefully be in our family for decades.

    Choosing to live in our 4-flat to save $270,000 over five years was one of the best financial decisions we’ve ever made.

    Snowboarders breath on a cold day illustrating the power of financial independence earned through house hacking.
    Photo by Alain Wong on Unsplash

    I highly recommend you consider house hacking if you’d like to start investing in real estate.

    Many of you are familiar with the strategy of living in a building (or home) you own while tenants (or roommates) pay for it. Brandon Turner, of BiggerPockets fame, popularized the concept he dubbed “House Hacking”.

    You can read all about house hacking on BiggerPockets here.

    For even more information on house hacking, Craig Curelop wrote a book for BiggerPockets called The House Hacking Strategy: How to Use Your Home to Achieve Financial Freedom.

    Without a doubt, there is no better strategy for entry level real estate investors than house hacking. I gave you a glimpse of the financial upside earlier in this post.

    Besides the financial upside, it’s like landlording with training wheels. Since you live on site, you can more easily learn how to manage a rental property, including responding to tenants and handling routine maintenance.

    The naysayers will say something like, “I don’t want to live with my tenants. They’re going to stress me out. I don’t want to be bothered at 2 a.m.”

    Ignore them.

    My wife and I lived with our tenants for five years at this property and two more years at a subsequent property. We did this while working full-time jobs as lawyers and raising two kids.

    Because we didn’t listen to the naysayers, we now have four income-generating properties and our “forever home” just outside Chicago.

    Even though we’re no longer living for free, the income from our rental properties is enough to cover the expenses of our home.

    So, why am I further away from financial independence today?

    I’m further away from financial independence today because my expenses have gone up since 2020. I’ve already alluded to those increased expenses throughout the post.

    In 2020, we had our first child. Now, we have three children.

    Also, after seven years of house hacking, we decided it was time to purchase a long-term home for our growing family just outside the city in a terrific area.

    We also finally traded in our 21-year-old car for our first new car ever.

    How’s this for easy math:

    Three Children + Nice House + New Car = Further Away from Financial Independence

    While that combination means I’m further away from reaching financial independence, I now have everything that I could possibly ever want.

    That’s why I couldn’t be happier with where I’m at today.

    My end game is finally in sight. Five years ago, I didn’t know where I’d be living or what car I’d be driving or what my family situation might be.

    Now, the picture is clear.

    I can calculate with reasonable certainty how much money I need to be truly financially independent. I can use that number as a target and make every financial decision with that target in mind.

    That’s why in 2025, I’m focused on paying down HELOC debt. Each time I make a debt payment, I move closer to financial independence.

    Besides, my goal is FIPE not FIRE.

    My goal is to reach FIPE not FIRE.

    FIPE means Financial Independence, Pivot Early.

    I have no intentions of retiring any time soon. Retiring early is not, and has never been, my goal.

    My goal is to become financially independent to create as many options as possible to protect myself and my family. I want to be financially independent so I can pivot no matter what life throws at me.

    If my goal was to retire early, I may have skipped the single family home in a great neighborhood. I could have continued house hacking, minimized my expenses, and lived off of the rest of the rental income.

    But, I want more for me and my family. I don’t want to just survive.

    Have you delayed financial independence to craft the life you really want?

    My life has certainly changed in the past five years, but all that change has been for the better.

    That meant house hacking at first to keep expenses as low as possible. Now it means enjoying the wealth I created by making those earlier sacrifices.

    In order to have the life I want, I needed to temporarily move further away from financial independence.

    Still, I’m confident that I’ve taken the right steps to not just reach financial independence, but to reach it while living the life I want.

    The tradeoff is that it will take me longer to be truly financially independent. I’m perfectly happy with that.

    Financial independence has never been more clearly in sight. It’s just delayed a little bit.

    • Is your goal to reach FIPE and pivot as quickly as possible?
    • Or, are you OK with delaying FIPE temporarily for the life you truly want?

    Let us know in the comments below.

  • Financial Independence Pivot Early (FIPE)

    Financial Independence Pivot Early (FIPE)

    We focus a lot on financial independence here at Think and Talk Money. That’s because achieving financial independence is the ultimate goal for most of us.

    To me, financial independence does not mean retiring.

    That’s why I don’t like the popular acronym, FIRE: Financial Independence, Retire Early.

    Instead, I I like to view my financial freedom journey as FIPE: Financial Independence, Pivot Early.

    Let me explain why I believe in FIPE not FIRE.

    FIPE = Financial Independence, Pivot Early

    Whatever it is that you truly want to do in life, financial independence makes it possible.

    When you have financial independence, you have options. You can make decisions based on your core values instead of making decisions based on money. You can pivot, if necessary.

    Financial independence is for people who want to be empowered to take more control of what they do with their working hours.

    It’s not about quitting work. It’s about the freedom to pivot to other work, if you want. I’m convinced that humans are meant to be productive. We are social creatures who at our core want to be contributing.

    That doesn’t mean we have to be or want to be employees. But, it does mean that we want to do something meaningful with our working hours every week.

    That’s why I believe in the power of pivoting, not retiring.

    Why I don’t like the name FIRE.

    Part of the misconception about financial independence may stem from the name of the popular personal finance concept known as FIRE: Financial Independence, Retire Early.

    It’s not uncommon for people to hear financial independence and immediately think that’s only for people who want to quit their jobs and retire. That’s how widespread FIRE has become in the personal finance space.

    I agree with so many of the principles of FIRE. I just don’t agree with the name.

    Financial independence is about much more than retiring early.

    FIRE emphasizes saving more and spending less until you reach the point where your passive investments generate enough income to allow you to quit your job.

    I love this part of FIRE: the idea of creating enough income streams so that you have the freedom to do what you want with your time. I share the primary goal of saving more money and spending less to achieve more life freedom.

    I call this Parachute Money. I like to view each income stream as a separate parachute string. The more parachute strings you have, the safer it is to make a big change in life.

    The problem for me is that the FIRE end game is suggested right there in the name: become financially independent so you can retire.

    I don’t like that part. I don’t like what the word “retire” implies.

    If you look it up, you’ll see that the word “retire“means to withdraw, to retreat, to recede.

    None of those things sound appealing to me at all.

    Each word implies moving backwards. I’m not working so hard to achieve financial freedom so I can move backwards in life.

    Fire burning on beach, depicting the FIRE movement: Financial Independence, Retire Early instead of FIPE: Financial Independence, Pivot Early.
    Photo by Benjamin DeYoung on Unsplash

    I prefer to think of financial independence in terms of creating options. I prefer to think of financial independence as a way to move forward in life.

    I think “pivot” better reflects that mission.

    Pivot means to adapt or improve through modifications and adjustments.

    That sounds so much more appealing to me.

    With FIPE, financial independence is still the primary goal. But, the endgame is not to withdraw or retreat. The endgame is to adapt and improve how you spend your working hours.

    FIPE = Financial Independence, Pivot Early.

    Granted, the name “FIPE” is not as catchy as FIRE.

    But, I think it actually better encapsulates the entire purpose of financial independence in the first place.

    To explain, let’s look back at the modern day origin of FIRE for a minute.

    Vicki Robin and Joe Dominguez are often credited for laying the groundwork for the modern day FIRE movement. Robin and Dominguez wrote an incredible book called Your Money or Your Life.

    It’s one of my favorite personal finance books. You should definitely read it if financial independence is important to you.

    In their book, Robin and Dominguez have a lot to say about the relationship between money, work, and time. 

    Guess what?

    Most of us are doing it all wrong.

    Most of us make the mistake of chasing money at the cost of our precious time. When you read Your Money or Your Life, you will start to value your time for what it’s really worth.

    By making good choices about how to earn money- and as importantly what to do with that money- you can get the most out of your money and your life.

    That’s what FIRE is really all about. It’s about choosing to use your working hours in a way that is more meaningful to you than clocking in-and-out as an employee each day.

    It’s not about retiring from meaningful work. It’s about pivoting to work that is more meaningful to you.

    FIRE proponents would likely agree that the goal is not to withdraw or retreat.

    I think proponents of FIRE would actually agree with me that the end game is really not about withdrawing or retreating. The mission is always about moving forward, not backwards.

    My belief is that people who are disciplined and skilled enough to reach financial independence in the first place are the type of people who don’t retreat or withdraw.

    They may opt for periods of temporary retirement, as they should. But, I don’t think financially independent people are truly wired for full-time retirement.

    That’s why you see so many people who have obtained financial independence continue to pursue income streams.

    That might mean managing real estate investments, teaching others, or even starting a financial freedom blog.

    So, technically speaking, most people who have obtained financial independence have not actually retired. They haven’t withdrawn or retreated. Instead, they have pivoted.

    They are now spending their working hours doing other things. They may not be working full-time for an employer, but they’re still working.

    They’ve achieved financial independence and have earned the right to pivot.

    Financial Independence, Pivot Early.

    Even FIRE leaders would likely agree that the end game is not to completely retire.

    FIRE is not about retiring or quitting. It’s about pivoting to more meaningful life pursuits.

    I don’t want to speak for Robin, but I think this is what she was getting at.

    I also think this is what modern day FIRE leaders like Mr. Money Mustache and the Financial Samurai believe in. Not long ago, Financial Samurai actually wrote an excellent post called “Why Early Retirement / FIRE is Becoming Obsolete.”

    I just think the name FIRE doesn’t accurately portray the mission. Pivoting early seems more appropriate to me than retiring early.

    We all have the same goals in mind: financial independence. And, I believe we have the same end game in mind: pivoting to more meaningful work.

    That’s why I like FIPE instead of FIRE.

    Are you looking to retire early or simply to pivot?

    What is it that you’re aiming for by getting your personal finances in order? If you want to retire early, there’s nothing at all wrong with that. You may be at the point in your career and life where that makes sense.

    Personally, I’m not looking to retire early. That’s why I like to view financial independence as a chance to pivot.

    Pivoting doesn’t mean you have to switch jobs or change things up just for the sake of change. It just means that you have that option if you want it or need it.

    By the way, I’m not alone in viewing financial independence as a chance to pivot instead of retire.

    Scott Trench, CEO and President of BiggerPockets has been beating this drum for a while. He’s also talked about it on the BiggerPockets Money podcast.

    I’m in complete alignment with Trench. I like almost everything about FIRE, just not what the name implies. 

    With FIPE, the goal is not to retire. The goal is to give yourself the freedom to choose what to do next.

    Whether you want to retire early or just pivot to a new chapter in your life, being good with money is key.

    Do you like the name FIRE or FIPE?

    At the end of the day, whether you like to view it as FIRE or FIPE, the mission is the same. We are all looking for the freedom to choose what to do next.

    When striving for financial independence, the goal is to create options. Those options likely include pivoting to more meaningful work, rather than withdrawing or retreating.

    Personally, I think the name FIPE better encapsulates that mission.

    • Do you agree?
    • What name resonates more with you on your financial freedom journey?
    • Are you interested in retiring early or pivoting early?

    Let us know in the comments below.

  • My Journey to Financial Freedom

    My Journey to Financial Freedom

    Financial freedom doesn’t happen overnight. I’ve been on my journey to financial freedom for more than a decade.

    I’m not there yet.

    Here’s a look at how my journey to financial freedom has progressed since I graduated law school in 2009.

    My journey to financial freedom began in my late-20s and was focused on eliminating debt.

    In my 20s, I needed to pay off credit card debt and student loan debt. All I knew about the journey to financial freedom back then was that it seemed very far away.

    I started budgeting, which meant reigning in my spending on things I didn’t really care about.

    I began to establish good money habits. It wasn’t easy, and I was far from perfect. That’s OK. The 80/20 rule reminds us that we don’t need to aim for perfection.

    By the way, my life didn’t all of a sudden become boring and miserable when I became more money conscious. Quite the opposite, actually.

    I became more confident in myself because I had a plan. I no longer felt like I was sliding backwards. With each paycheck, I moved one step closer to erasing my debt. That was a powerful feeling.

    In my early-30s, my journey to financial freedom was about fueling my savings.

    By the time I turned 30, I had paid off my credit card debt and my student loan debt. I’ll never forget the day I made my last student loan payment as my family and I were heading out to Colorado. A huge weight had been lifted from my shoulders.

    I felt free. My journey to financial freedom was still in the early stages, but I was on my way. Most importantly, I still had good habits and a plan.

    The byproduct of eliminating my debt was that I had more fuel to accomplish my other goals.

    Financial Freedom wooden sign with a beach on background, illustrating that my journey to financial freedom and the journey to financial freedom for lawyers and professionals does not happen over night.

    What other goals?

    The money I had been allocating to student loan and credit card debt could now be put towards more fun goals and experiences.

    Instead of aimlessly spending the thousands of dollars each month that had been going towards debt, I rolled that money directly into savings. Highest on my list was saving for an engagement ring.

    Within a year, I had enough saved to purchase the ring. I thought being free from debt was strong motivation. Turns out that motivation was nothing compared to the desire to buy a ring for the woman you love.

    As your career progresses and you earn more money, you will benefit from strong personal finance habits.

    As my career progressed, like many of you, I started earning more money. When I earned more, I did my best to use that additional income as fuel for my goals.

    I’m grateful I had previously learned strong personal finance habits on my journey to financial freedom when I earned relatively little.

    For most of us, our usual career progression is the exact opposite of the typical lottery winner. Who hasn’t heard the stories about the lottery winners that hit it big and then quickly go broke?

    These stories are unfortunately all too common. What starts out with so much elation usually ends in tragedy.

    The normal downfall involves unrestrained spending on things like houses, cars, and extravagant nights out. It also involves the pressure to give money away to family, friends, and charities.

    The same pattern has been well-documented for professional athletes who earn millions before quickly going broke.

    The challenge is the same for lottery winners and professional athletes. They come into a lot of money suddenly without any prior personal finance education. When this happens, that money disappears quickly.

    What can we learn from lottery winners and professional athletes?

    I think it’s safe to say that none of us are going to win the lottery or earn millions as a professional athlete. I hope I’m wrong about that!

    But, we can still fall victim to the same set of challenges on the journey to financial freedom. It may not be a sudden rise and then an equally sudden drop-off. Our financial growth presents itself more slowly.

    Over time, we may earn referrals/commissions, raises, and bonuses. These earnings certainly add up and can make a huge difference in our lives, if we have a plan. That’s a big “if” for most of us.

    I didn’t have the full plan figured out in my 20s. Our goals change as life changes. There’s nothing wrong with that.

    That said, because of the steps I took in my 20s to learn about personal finance, I was better prepared for the opportunities and challenges that arose in my 30s. I learned that when you create a solid foundation for yourself, you have options.

    To me, life is all about giving yourself options. Nobody likes feeling stuck, including me.

    In my mid-30s, my journey to financial freedom was about building wealth through real estate.

    Besides saving for an engagement ring and a wedding, I was able to save up for a downpayment on a home. At the time I started saving up for a home, I had no idea that I could use my savings to invest in real estate.

    It wasn’t until I went to a Cubs game with a good friend of mine, The Professor, that I learned about real estate investing.

    This is when my journey to financial freedom really accelerated.

    See, The Professor had a beautiful condo with an incredible rooftop deck near Wrigley Field. During the game, he told me he was selling the condo and moving into a 4-flat with his fiancee in an up-and-coming part of town.

    Huh?

    Why on earth would you give up your amazing condo? And move to a random neighborhood I’d maybe been to one time in my life?

    I thought The Professor had lost his mind. Back then, I had no idea what a 4-flat even was. I couldn’t even point to his new neighborhood on a map of Chicago.

    The Ivy at Wrigley Field illustrating when Matthew Adair accelerated his journey to financial freedom through real estate investing.

    The Professor set me straight.

    He walked me through the numbers. He explained that he was going from paying $3,000 per month for his condo to receiving $700 per month on top of living for free in the 4-flat. That’s a $3,700 difference per month!

    The Professor also introduced me to BiggerPockets. That was huge for me because I believe in the motto, “Trust but verify.”

    Over the next week, I read everything I could and listened to podcasts every day. It didn’t take long before I was convinced that I wanted a 4-flat of my own.

    Eight years later, I own three buildings and 10 apartments in that same Chicago neighborhood. I have a ski rental condo in Colorado.

    Without that great talk with The Professor, I don’t think I would be where I am today on my journey to financial freedom.

    Man I’m glad The Professor wasn’t afraid to talk money with me!

    He knew that taking about money is not taboo.

    We all need to position ourselves to benefit when luck comes our way.

    I was fortunate to have learned from The Professor’s experience. We all need some luck on the journey to financial freedom. I’m convinced that we’ll all catch a break here or there. The question is what we do with that luck when it comes our way.

    If I hadn’t taken the time to learn about personal finance in my 20s, I wouldn’t have been positioned to benefit from that conversation with The Professor.

    That’s why I say the journey to financial freedom doesn’t happen over night. It’s about one building block at a time.

    For any aspiring real estate investors out there, please take that message to heart. Before you can successfully invest in real estate, you have to invest in your own financial literacy.

    I’ve learned firsthand that the same principles that apply to personal finances apply to managing a real estate portfolio. Each pursuit takes a plan that only works with discipline and patience.

    In my late-30s, my journey to financial freedom was about paying off debt.

    In my late-30s, my journey to financial freedom pivoted from acquiring properties to optimizing my portfolio. My wife and I decided we were ready to transition from growing our real estate portfolio to paying off our debt.

    In a way, I’ve come full circle on my journey to financial freedom.

    We owe a lot of credit to Chad “Coach” Carson and his excellent book, Small and Mighty Real Estate Investor: How to Reach Financial Freedom with Fewer Rental Properties.

    Reading Small and Mighty Real Estate Investor helped us conclude that at this point in our lives, we have enough. Our portfolio generates enough income to help fuel our current goals. If we were to continue expanding, the headaches could end up outweighing the financial benefits.

    Progress is not linear, either. I’ve taken on debt in the form of mortgages and HELOCs to invest in more real estate.

    In the short term, that mortgage debt pulls me further away from financial freedom.

    If my plan works, that same debt will push me more rapidly to financial freedom.

    Financial freedom through real estate has existed for decades, if not centuries.

    By the way, I didn’t invent the plan of achieving financial freedom through real estate. That idea has existed for decades, if not centuries. I’d avoid anyone who tells you they pioneered this concept.

    Years ago, I remember sharing my newfound passion for real estate with mom. She had this smile on her face as I excitedly shared this “new” phenomenon of investing in real estate to achieve financial freedom.

    The next time I saw her, I realized her smile was actually more of a smirk.

    She handed me a book called How You Can Become Financially Independent by Investing in Real Estate.

    It was written by Albert J. Lowry, Ph. D.

    In 1977!

    Picture of a financial independence book showing that my journey to financial freedom through real estate is a concept that has existed for decades.

    Financial Freedom doesn’t happen over night.

    It’s natural to want to jump to the finish line. I’m guilty of that, too. I think about achieving financial freedom every day and need to remind myself to take it one step at a time.

    Even with all I’ve learned about personal finance, it can sometimes feel like I’m heading in the wrong direction.

    Wherever you currently are on your journey to financial freedom, remember that it doesn’t happen over night. I need to constantly remind myself to stay the course.

    Keep coming back to Think and Talk Money for daily reminders that financial freedom is within all of our grasps.

  • What is Your Money Why?

    What is Your Money Why?

    What is your Money Why?

    I had the happiest occasion to think about that question this past week.

    My wife and I welcomed our third child, a little baby girl.

    We were very fortunate and had a smooth delivery process.

    Even so, when you’re in the delivery room, your mind runs wild. You just want everything to go well. It’s completely out of your hands by that point.

    Things get really interesting when you’ve been at the hospital for a while and haven’t slept. There’s no telling where your mind will go.

    No matter how much you tell yourself not to do it, you can’t help but think of all that can go wrong.

    During these moments, I can assure you that one thing you’re not thinking about is money. If anything, you’re thinking that you would trade all the money you have for a healthy baby and a healthy mom.

    I guarantee you won’t be thinking about free falling markets. You’re not thinking about setting up a 529 college savings plan, either.

    When you finally hold your new baby, nothing else in the world matters. Everything around you goes quiet. The sense of relief is overwhelming and you cry.

    It’s a beautiful thing.

    In those first few moments, I told my baby girl that I love her. I promised that I will always protect her. Whatever she needs, I will be there.

    If I want to keep that promise, I need to be good with money.

    To be good with money, I need a powerful Money Why.

    Matthew Adair, founder of Think and Talk Money, holding his baby girl and remembering why he wants to be good with money.

    What is my Money Why?

    I’ve known my Money Why since I wrote down my Tiara Goals for Financial Freedom on a beach in 2017. My number one Tiara Goal for Financial Freedom is to be with my wife and kids as much as I want.

    I wrote down that goal before I was even married or had kids.

    Years later, my Money Why hasn’t changed. The only thing that’s changed is my Money Why has gotten stronger and stronger since then.

    • In 2017, my Money Why got stronger when I got married.
    • In 2020, my Money Why got stronger when my daughter was born.
    • In 2022, my Money Why got stronger when my son was born.
    • This week, my Money Why got stronger when my baby girl was born.

    My Money Why has never been more clear. It doesn’t even matter if my brain is functioning at half speed right now on limited sleep.

    My Money Why is my baby girl, my son, and my daughter. My Money Why is my wife.

    Of course, I want to provide for my family financially.

    But my Money Why is more than that.

    I don’t want to just provide money, I want to provide time. I want to be present and share experiences.

    I want to be with them.

    My overall goal in life is to spend as much time as possible with the people who are meaningful to me. To accomplish that goal, I need to be good with money.

    If I’m good with my money, I can achieve financial freedom.

    With financial freedom, I can choose how to spend my time. That means I can choose who to spend my time with.

    My Money Why is not about being rich.

    Saying that I want to be good with money is not the same thing as saying that I want to be rich. Funny enough, people that are good with money oftentimes feel rich regardless of what their net worth is.

    As nicely put by Sam Dogen, founder of Financial Samurai, one of the preeminent personal finance blogs:

    But I’ve noticed on my path to financial freedom there were several times when I felt incredibly rich and money wasn’t the dominant reason.

    I couldn’t agree more with Dogen. There’s no richer feeling than having just come home from the hospital with a healthy baby girl. That feeling has nothing to do with money.

    Check out more from Dogen at his website financialsamurai.com. There’s a reason why he is one of the leading voices in the personal finance space.

    Simply making a lot of money will not make you feel rich.

    On the flip side, people that make a lot of money but are not good with money often feel like they’re struggling to get by. As CNBC explained after talking with financial psychologists:

    Whether you’re aiming to save more cash or boost your overall earnings, it’s important to ask yourself what you hope to achieve by obtaining more money, Chaffin says. Otherwise, if you don’t change your internal money beliefs, you may still feel anxious about money even if you hit millionaire status.

    The takeaway is that it is pointless to make money without stopping to think why you want that money and what you’re going to do with it.

    If you’ve never thought about money that way before, here are three three powerful reasons to get you started:

    1. Money can give you choices.
    2. Money can give you personal power.
    3. Money can give you time.

    Money is nothing but a tool that you can manipulate to get what you truly want out of life. The thing is, you have to actually think about what you want if you are going to use that tool effectively.

    Don’t wait for a major life event to start thinking about money.

    You don’t have to wait until you have a baby to start thinking about what money can do for you. In fact, if you wait for a major life event like that, it’s going to be a lot harder than if you start thinking now.

    Ask yourself:

    “What is my Money Why?”

    Whatever comes to mind, write it down.

    Maybe you want to retire early. Maybe you’re just looking for a life pivot, as Scott Trench, CEO and President of BiggerPockets wrote about recently and has regularly discussed on the BiggerPockets Money podcast.

    I personally agree with Trench. I like almost everything about FIRE, which stands for Financially Independent Retire Early. I just know that retiring early is not for me.

    I prefer to think of it as FIPE:

    Financially Independent Pivot Early

    With FIPE, the goal is not to retire. The goal is to give yourself the freedom to choose what to do next.

    Whether you want to retire early or just pivot to a new chapter in your life, being good with money is key.

    Besides, I’ve never seen the point in working endless hours to make money, while spending hardly any time seriously thinking about how to keep that money.

    What’s your Money Why?

    My Money Why gets clearer by the day. It has never been more clear than it is right now after bringing home a little baby girl.

    • What is your Money Why?
    • Has your Money Why changed over time?
    • How does your Money Why impact your relationship with money?

    Let us know in the comments below.

  • 10 Student Loan Tips for Lawyers and Professionals

    10 Student Loan Tips for Lawyers and Professionals

    Student loans are…heavy.

    That’s it.

    They’re. Just. Heavy.

    They’re a weight that we carry around long before we even make the first repayment. Sometimes that weight feels so heavy, it’s hard to imagine it ever going away.

    And as much as we wish we could, we can’t ignore our student loans.

    One way or the other, we have to get rid of them.

    And when we do get rid of them for good, there might not be a better personal finance feeling in the world. Personally, I’ll never forget the day I made my last payment and shared the news with my future wife and family.

    To help you have that same feeling of accomplishment, here are my top 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professionals.

    Top 10 Student Loan Tips for Lawyers and Professionals

    1. Locate all your loans.
    2. Sign up for automatic payments.
    3. Do not miss a payment.
    4. Consider using Debt Snowball or Debt Avalanche.
    5. Make an extra monthly payment.
    6. Create a BAT that generates fuel for your student loans.
    7. Make more money and use that money for your loans.
    8. Take a tax deduction and use your tax refund for your loans.
    9. Consider a loan consolidation.
    10. Look for ongoing scholarship opportunities.

    1. Locate all your loans.

    As a first step, be sure that you are aware of all of your loans. Most people end up needing both federal loans and private loans, which are not tracked by the same loan servicers.

    Additionally, you may have taken out different types of loans at different stages of your education. It’s not uncommon to forget about some of those loans.

    Before you can implement a thoughtful strategy to pay back your loans, you need to ensure that all of your loans are accounted for.

    The best place to locate all of your loans is on your credit report. The next best option is to ask your school’s financial aid office.

    A credit report is a document that tracks your history of repayment and the current status of any loans you’ve taken out.

    You are entitled to receive a free copy of your credit report from each of the three main credit reporting agencies every year. To do so, simply visit annualcreditreport.com.

    For federal loans, you can also check online at studentaid.gov. But, your private loans won’t be tracked by the federal government at studentaid.gov.

    Besides checking your credit report, you can access all your private loan information from your loan servicer.

    Once you’ve identified all your loans, you can implement a strategy to pay them off efficiently.

    2. Sign up for automatic payments.

    By signing up for auto pay, you can save .25% interest on your federal loans. Many private loan companies also offer a .25% discount for using auto pay.

    Over time, those savings will add up. And, there’s really no downside to you.

    In fact, you should be using automatic payments even if your loan servicer does not offer a discount.

    When it comes to paying back loans or achieving any other financial goal, automating your money is a very good idea. In The Automatic Millionaire, David Bach thoughtfully explains how the single step of automating your finances can help you achieve all of your financial goals.

    You can learn more about Bach’s philosophy on his website.

    I personally implement many of Bach’s strategies in my own life. I used to automate my student loans payments. Now, I automate my mortgage payments. 

    The Automatic Millionaire is definitely worth a read.

    3. Do not miss a loan payment.

    You know that expression, “Act now, apologize later”?

    That absolutely does NOT apply to loan payments.

    No matter how responsible or well-intentioned you are, sometimes life happens. Whether it’s technically your fault or not, a missed loan payment is a big problem.

    It may seem unfair, but even a single missed payment can severely impact your credit history and credit score.

    Pieces of wood with message fair and unfair on wooden background illustrating one of the 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professionals is to not miss a payment.

    Because the consequences of a missed payment are so severe, this is another reason why setting up auto payments is such a good idea.

    If you know ahead of time that you won’t be able to make a payment, it is imperative that you notify your loan servicer ahead of time. Your loan servicer may be able to work with you and figure out a solution before major consequences set in.

    4. Consider using Debt Snowball or Debt Avalanche to pay off your student loans.

    When you apply the Debt Snowball strategy, the idea is to focus on the loan with the smallest balance first, regardless of interest rate.

    Once you have paid off the first loan in full, you move to the loan with the next smallest balance, again regardless of interest rate. The money you had been paying to the first loan can now be rolled into the second loan.

    When you apply the Debt Avalanche strategy, the idea is to prioritize the loan with the highest interest rate, regardless of the balance.

    Once you’ve paid off the loan with the highest interest rate, you move to the loan with the next highest interest rate. Just as before, the money you had been paying to the first loan can now be applied to the second loan.

    Either approach works perfectly for paying off multiple student loan balances. Regardless of which method you choose, always pay the minimum required amount on all loans every month.

    For more on the pros and cons of each method, check out our deep dive on Debt Snowball v. Debt Avalanche.

    5. Make an extra monthly payment for massive savings.

    You may be surprised how big of an impact even a small additional payment each month can have on your loans.

    Let’s look at an example.

    Let’s say you owe $100,000 in student loans and currently pay back $1,250 per month with an 8% interest rate.

    Using calculator.net, you learn that at this pace, it will take you 9 years and 7 months to pay off your loans. You’ll pay back a total of $143,377.94.

    Student loan calculator illustration showing the power of one additional monthly payment as part of Think and Talk Money's 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professionals.

    Now, let’s imagine you are able to pay back an additional $100 per month.

    Look what happens:

    Student loan calculator showing the power of one additional $100 monthly payment as part of Think and Talk Money's 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professionals.

    You can eliminate your loans an entire year sooner and save $5,040.13 in interest payments. Just with an extra $100 per month!

    What about if you are able to pay back an extra $250 per month?

    This is when I start to get excited.

    Check this out:

    Student loan illustration showing the power of an additional $250 monthly payment as part of Think and Talk Money's 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professionals.

    For just $250 per month, you can knock off 2 years and 2 months of loan repayments and save $10,684.35 in interest!

    Think about how good it will feel to get 2 years and 2 months of your life back without loan payments.

    How are you supposed to come up with an extra $100, $250, or more per month?

    I’m glad you asked.

    6. Create a Budget After Thinking that generates fuel for your student loans.

    If you want to pay off your student loans faster, you really only have two options.

    The first option is to create a Budget After Thinking that prioritizes loan repayment. One of the key purposes of budgeting is to generate fuel for your future goals, including eliminating student loan debt.

    Instead of letting your hard-earned dollars disappear, put them to good use. Even $100 a month can make a big difference, as we just saw.

    If you’re having a hard time generating additional fuel for your student loans, check out my 10 Tips to Win the Budget Game.

    So, the first option to pay off your loans faster is to create a budget and spend less money elsewhere.

    What’s the second option?

    7. Make more money and put those extra earnings directly to your loans.

    If you’re not going to cut spending in favor of student loan repayment, then your only other option is to make more money.

    That might mean getting a valuable side hustle. Or, it might mean earning a raise or a bonus at your primary job.

    Whatever the case may be, as you make more money, focus on improving your savings rate.

    Financial bills and adhesive note with text - Side hustle showing one of the 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professionals is to get a side hustle.

    Your savings rate is simply the amount of money you save each month divided by the amount of money you make.

    Even though it’s called “savings rate,” there’s no reason why you can’t include debt repayment in your calculations. Whether you are adding money to a savings account or eliminating debt, your net worth improves.

    It all counts in my book.

    The point is that when you start to earn more money, put that money to good use.

    Instead of shopping at more expensive stores or eating at fancier restaurants, keep your spending habits the same. Put those higher earnings towards your important life goals, like eliminating student loan debt.

    8. Take a tax deduction and use your tax refund for your loans.

    The IRS permits borrowers, up to certain income limits, to take a federal tax deduction up to $2,500 per year for student loan interest payments. That means that you can reduce your taxable income by up to $2,500 per year based on the interest you paid that year.

    The actual amount of money you’ll save with this tax deduction depends on variables like your tax bracket. Check with your accountant or tax professional for specifics.

    Regardless, as we’ve seen above, even a small amount of extra money can go a long way if used for additional student loan debt payments.

    In the same vein, what if you made it a goal to apply your entire tax refund to your student loan debt?

    Let’s return briefly to our example above.

    This time, let’s assume that each year, you receive a tax refund of $1,700. Instead of wasting that $1,700 annually on things you don’t care about, you decide to put that money directly towards your student loans.

    Look what happens when you apply that $1,700 tax refund to your student loans each year, without making any additional payments whatsoever:

    Student loan illustration showing the power of an annual $1,700 payment as part of Think and Talk Money's 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professionals.

    With just that one decision to use your annual tax refund for student loan payments, you knock off 1 year and 4 months of payments and save $6,099.26!

    That seems like a great use of money that you’ll never miss anyways.

    9. Consider a loan consolidation.

    Consolidating your various loans into a single loan can help make your life easier and save you money.

    Your life should get easier when you only have to track and pay one loan back each month. There’s also a much smaller chance that you forget to make a payment or lose track of a loan altogether.

    Besides the convenience, when you consolidate, you should receive an overall lower interest rate. That means long-term savings.

    Before you consider a loan consolidation, be sure to do your homework. One major consideration is that you will lose whatever federal loan benefits you currently have if you consolidate, such as the possibility for loan forgiveness.

    10. If you’re still in school, look for ongoing scholarship opportunities.

    This is something that didn’t occur to me until my final year of law school. It took me that long to realize that schools regularly offer scholarships, stipends, and grants to current students, not just prospective students.

    During my third year of law school, I applied for a scholarship and was awarded $2,000. I didn’t think of it at the time, but looking back, I could have used that $2,000 to prepay my student loan interest.

    That would have accelerated my progress towards eliminating my loans while I was still in school.

    This is a good time to point out that personal finance requires consistent attention. You don’t have to think and talk about money every day. Not even I want to do that.

    But, you do have to intentionally make your personal finances a regular part of your life.

    Let’s revisit our example once more.

    Sorry, I can’t help myself.

    What if you combined some of the 10 tips we just talked about?

    Let’s say you decide to make an extra $250 monthly payment, contribute your $1,700 tax refund annually, and make a one-time payment of $2,000 for a scholarship you earned while finishing up school.

    Let’s take one more look at calculator.net:

    With just three relatively painless decisions, you can knock off 3 years and 1 month of student loan payments! And, you’ll save $15,481.76!

    Think about what you could do with an extra 3 years and 1 month of your life without student loan payments.

    You can now use that $1,500 per month you had been using for student loans on other goals. Not to mention what you could do with your annual tax refund.

    On top of that, think about what you could do with that $15,481.76 you saved in interest payments.

    Decisions like these are how financial freedom happens.

    That’s powerful stuff.

    What are your favorite student loan repayment strategies?

    To recap my top 10 student loan tips for lawyers and professions:

    1. Locate all your loans.
    2. Sign up for automatic payments.
    3. Do not miss a payment.
    4. Consider using Debt Snowball or Debt Avalanche.
    5. Make an extra monthly payment.
    6. Create a BAT that generates fuel for your student loans.
    7. Make more money and use that money for your loans.
    8. Take a tax deduction and use your tax refund for your loans.
    9. Consider a loan consolidation.
    10. Look for ongoing scholarship opportunities.
    • Have you applied any of these strategies?
    • What am I leaving out that has worked for you?

    Let us know in the comments below.

  • The Time is Now: Student Loan Basics

    The Time is Now: Student Loan Basics

    Have you noticed all the attention on student loans lately?

    To say there is some confusion and uncertainty would be an understatement.

    I don’t have any better idea than you do about what may happen in the student loan landscape.

    No matter what happens, the way I see it, you have two options .

    The first option is to do nothing, get angry, and blame everyone else.

    The second option is to take ownership, get prepared, and educate yourself about the student loan system so you’re ready for whatever comes next.

    If you’ve chosen the second option, you’re in the right place. That means you’re determined to not let outside factors you can’t control hinder your progress towards financial freedom.

    In this post, we’ll cover the basics about federal and private student loans so you can begin to make informed decisions to most efficiently eliminate your student loan debt.

    Whether you are finishing up school or currently paying off loans, this is a good place to start. No matter how the student loan landscape changes, it’s a fair bet that these basic concepts will remain in place.

    In the end, paying off student loan debt is really not that different from paying off any other form of debt. However before we start playing the game of conquering student loan debt, we need to understand some key ground rules.

    Let’s dive in.

    Student loan debt is a major obstacle to reaching financial freedom.

    Student loan debt is one of the major obstacles for people striving for financial freedom. That makes sense given that more than 42 million people in the United States currently have student loan debt.

    It’s not just about the number of people who have student loan debt. It’s the dollar amount of those loan balances. In my opinion, I don’t see how someone can be truly financially free when burdened by student loan debt.

    This is especially true for professionals with advanced degrees. According to the Education Data Initiative:

    • The average person with a graduate degree owes up to $102,790 in federal student loan debt.
    • 54.0% of all graduate school students have federal student loan debt.
    • 55.2% of people with master’s degrees have federal student loan debt.
    • 74.8% of people with professional doctorates have federal student loan debt.
    • 76.2% of doctors have student loan debt.

    It’s because so many of us rely on student loans to pay for school that there is no shortage of information available online. The problem is there’s so much information, it’s hard to know where to start.

    Let me help you get started.

    Federal loans are better than private loans.

    The first thing to know about student loans is that there are two entirely different types: federal loans and private loans.

    Federal loans are funded by the United States government. You can access the main federal student loan website at studentaid.gov.

    Private loans are funded by lenders, like banks. Some of the most popular private student loan companies are SoFi, College Ave, and Sallie Mae.

    When you hear about student loans in the news, you’re hearing about changes to the federal loan system. There may be some side effects for the private loan system, but the federal system is getting all the attention right now.

    There’s no real dispute that federal loans have long been a better option for borrowers than private loans. Federal loans almost always offer the best rates and terms. Even the private loan companies admit as much.

    The reason people have both federal and private loans is because federal loan amounts are capped. Once you’ve taken out all the federal loans you are eligible for, private loans become necessary to fill whatever funding gap remains.

    With tuition costs rising for college and grad school, it’s likely you’ll leave school with both federal and private loans.

    Understanding the available options and differences for each type of loan will help you eliminate your student loan debt as efficiently as possible.

    What to Know about Federal Student Loans

    Even with a changing landscape, below are the key aspects to keep in mind regarding federal loans.

    With this background in mind, you’ll be better equipped to make adjustments to your student loan payoff strategy should that time come.

    graduates holding piggy banks saving concept illustrating taking responsibility for student loan repayment on the way to financial freedom.

    There are 3 main types of federal student loans.

    There are three main types of federal student loans: Direct Subsidized Loans, Direct Unsubsidized Loans, and Direct PLUS Loans.

    Direct Subsidized Loans offer the best rates and terms and are designed for undergraduate students with financial need.

    The main advantage of subsidized loans is that the federal government pays the interest for the borrower for a certain period of time, like when the borrower is still in school. That could be major savings.

    Direct Unsubsidized Loans are available for undergraduate and graduate students and are not restricted to students with financial need. However, the borrower is responsible for all the interest on the loan.

    Your school determines which type of loan you are eligible for. Keep in mind there is cap to the amount you can borrow for each type of loan. We’ll discuss the caps in a moment.

    Your credit score does not factor into Direct Subsidized or Unsubsidized Loans.

    Unlike with private loans, Direct loans do not depend on your credit score. This is a key advantage of federal loans for people who have no credit history or poor credit history.

    Direct PLUS Loans are available for parents and graduate students.

    Direct PLUS Loans are for eligible parents and graduate and professional students.

    The other main differences with PLUS loans relate to the amount you can borrow and the interest rate you’ll pay, as seen below.

    Also, with PLUS loans, the borrower’s credit history is a factor considered during the application process. These loans are not available to people with poor credit.

    Federal Loans are capped depending on the loan type and education level.

    The amount you can borrow in federal loans depends on the loan type and education level (undergraduate or graduate/professional).

    With these caps in mind (besides PLUS loans), you can see how federal loans alone are usually insufficient to cover the full costs of higher education.

    Federal loans offer the best interest rates and lowest fees.

    As mentioned above, federal loans have long offered the best interest rates and lowest fees.

    Rates are always subject to change. For illustration purposes, here are the current interest rates for federal loans:

    Loan TypeLevelInterest Rate
    Direct Subsidized and UnsubsidizedUndergraduate6.53%
    Direct UnsubsidizedGraduate/Professional8.08%
    Direct PLUSParents or Graduate/Professional9.08%

    In addition to interest, most federal loans also include loan fees. These fees are taken out of the loan at the time the loan is first disbursed. That means the amount you’re borrowing and responsible for paying back is more than the amount you actually receive.

    Loan fees for Direct Subsidized and Unsubsidized loans is currently set at 1.057%.

    Loan fees for PLUS loans is currently set at 4.228%.

    As you can see, even within federal loans, the interest rate and fees charged vary depending on the type of loan and level of education.

    The federal government contracts with loan servicers to manage your loans.

    The federal government will assign your loan to a loan servicer to handle billing and other services. When you need information or have questions about your federal loans, you’ll need to contact your loan servicer.

    The federal government currently works with the following loan servicers:

    Keep your loan servicer’s contact information close by, especially these days.

    Your first federal loan payment is typically due six months after leaving school.

    With federal loans, you will usually have a six month grace period after you leave school before your first loan payment is due.

    Not all federal loans have a grace period, and interest usually will accrue during the grace period. You are allowed to pay this accrued interest before you enter repayment.

    The federal government offers a number of loan repayment plans, for now.

    The federal government offers a number of loan repayment plans.

    At least, for now.

    It’s anyone’s guess if these repayment plans will continue to exist and who may be impacted.

    For up-to-date information on the available repayment plans, please visit studentaid.gov or contact your loan servicer.

    So, what is a loan repayment plan?

    Generally speaking, a standard repayment plan means paying your loans back in equal monthly payments spread over ten years.

    In addition to the standard repayment plans, there are a number of plans currently available to reduce your monthly payment and extend your repayment term. These plans are typically based off of income level.

    The idea behind most of these repayment plans is to help you pay back your loans while still affording your other monthly expenses.

    Your loan servicer will work with you to determine the best repayment plan for your situation.

    With federal loans, there should be no prepayment penalty if you accelerate your loan payments on your way to financial freedom.

    One important note: regardless of the repayment plan you choose, you are still responsible to pay back the entire loan. If you choose a plan that offers lower monthly payments spread over a longer time period, you will end up paying more in total interest.

    Loan Deferment, Forbearance, Forgiveness and Discharge

    With federal loans, you typically have better options when you are struggling to repay your loans. Note that just because you may have more options does not mean you’ll be let off the hook.

    Loan forgiveness may be available to people who work in eligible public service jobs who make loan payments for ten years.

    Again, this may be all in flux.

    For up-to-date information on the available repayment plans, please visit studentaid.gov or contact your loan servicer.

    What to Know about Private Student Loans.

    With a basic understanding of federal loans as context, it’s not too difficult to understand how private loans work.

    The key here is that when it comes to private loans, there are more variables to consider. Lenders may have different rates, loan terms, and repayment schedules.

    Be aware that private loans likely will not offer loan forgiveness and may involve additional fees and potential penalties.

    The best thing you can do is to compare the various options for private student loans. A good place to start is with three of the most common private lenders:

    Each of these lenders provides detailed information on its websites. Even if you don’t choose any of these lenders, you can still do your homework on their websites.

    Besides just the interest rate on a potential loan, pay attention to other important factors like:

    • Loan fees
    • Repayment options
    • When the first loan payment is due
    • Prepayment penalties
    • Consolidation options and fees
    • Quality of service and responsiveness

    In the end, you’ll likely find that most private loan lenders offer comparable rates and terms. They are competing with each other for your business, after all.

    Where are you in your student loan journey?

    Ultimately, only you are responsible for your loans. You can blame everyone else for the changing landscape or you can educate yourself and make a plan.

    Whether you are finishing up school or currently paying off loans, this post is intended to provide student loan basics that should hold true no matter how the student landscape changes.

    Now that you understand the basic ground rules, you can work on a plan to pay off your loans as efficiently as possible on your way to financial freedom.

    Where are you in your student loan journey?

    Do you know anyone who would benefit from taking about student loan basics?

  • Good Credit Card Perks Besides Points

    Good Credit Card Perks Besides Points

    We recently discussed 10 credit card tips so you can benefit from credit card reward points without suffering from the penalties.

    Today, we’ll look at one of the other major benefits to using credit cards: the ability to easily track your monthly spending.

    This one perk can make staying on budget and fueling your Later Money bucket that much easier each month.

    When you consistently fuel your Later Money bucket, you’re moving closer and closer to financial freedom.

    Let’s take a closer look at how you can use credit cards as part of a healthy financial life.

    How to use credit cards to track your spending.

    Tracking your spending is a crucial first step in the budgeting process. But, that doesn’t mean that anybody actually likes doing it.

    The good news is that once you have created a Budget After Thinking and developed consistent habits, you no longer need to track every penny.

    Instead, you can track two simple numbers to stay on budget.

    Credit cards make it very easy to track these two numbers.

    Here’s exactly how I use credit cards to track my spending.

    When I get my monthly statement for each credit card, the first thing I do I add the amount and due date to my Notes app.

    I’ve been doing this for years now, which means I have a clear understanding of my family’s usual spending habits.

    I can then quickly assess whether it was a good spending month. For example, if I normally spend $4,000 per month on my card, and this month I spent $5,000, I’ll know very quickly that something is off.

    Sometimes, it’s obvious why I overspent. Maybe it was something like buying airplane tickets for a family vacation. If that’s the case, I don’t need to study my credit card statement too closely because I already know why my spending was more than usual.

    Other times, it’s not so obvious. When I don’t immediately understand why my spending was higher than normal, I take a closer look at my statement.

    In just a few minutes, I can look at an entire month’s worth of spending to determine where my money went so I can make thoughtful adjustments during the next month.

    This is how I stay on budget with two simple numbers.

    This same process also helps me track that month’s savings transfers to make sure I maintain a strong savings rate.

    Why I also track the payment due date in Notes.

    The reason I write the payment due date is to make sure I never miss a payment. This is the most important rule of responsible credit card use.

    If you miss even one payment on a single credit card, that missed payment will appear on your credit report. Your credit score will also drop.

    As a landlord, I play close attention to any potential tenant’s credit history and score. I am not willing to risk entering in a financial relationship with someone who has a history of missed payments.

    We recently received an application from someone who has missed 8 of her last 25 payments on her auto loan. That was a major red flag.

    I automate some, but not all, of my monthly payments.

    While we automate most of our monthly payments and transfers, we don’t automate all of them.

    Even though my wife and I only use two credit cards for our personal spending, we have business credit cards for our real estate properties.

    We also have mortgages and HELOCs that need to get paid at various times each month. I use the Notes function to remind me when these payments are due.

    For each credit account, I have automatic payments set up to pay the minimum required amount each month. I then pay the full balance each month manually.

    That’s because we have various sources of income that come in sporadically throughout the month. It’s simpler for me to pay certain bills manually instead of automatically.

    When you have multiple income streams, you have Parachute Money. Currently, our Parachute Money includes:

    • My primary job as a mesothelioma attorney
    • My wife’s primary job as an attorney
    • Rental Property 1
    • Rental Property 2
    • Rental Property 3
    • Rental Property 4
    • Law School Professor
    • Emergency Savings

    Using the Notes function helps me make the required payments each month after these income streams hit my checking account.

    What other benefits do credit cards offer?

    Credit cards offer a variety of other benefits to entice customers. Besides tracking your spending, two of my favorite perks are purchase protection and credit score monitoring.

    Purchase Protection and Fraudulent Charges

    Purchase protection is so important in today’s world. The last thing any of us needs is for our personal finances to get wrecked by scam purchases or fraudulent charges.

    Let’s say you buy something with Zelle, debit card, or cash. There are very little, if any, protections to get your money back if that transaction needs to be cancelled.

    Credit cards help prevent against fraudulent transfers, which is one of the best benefits to using credit cards besides reward points.

    Credit cards, on the other hand, typically offer the best purchase protection available. If you’ve been scammed or deceived in any way, your best bet at fixing that issue is to work with your credit card company.

    Also, credit card companies are generally very proactive and helpful in addressing fraudulent charges. If you do encounter any fraudulent charges, your credit card company will work with you to fix the problem.

    While credit card companies are pretty good these days at spotting fraudulent charges, I like to double check my online account to protect myself. To make sure I have not been targeted, I take about 30 seconds to look at my credit card transactions each week.

    Credit Score Monitoring

    Most credit card companies today offer free credit score monitoring through one of the major credit agencies, like Experian. You can see your credit score right in your online account.

    Your credit score will automatically update, usually once per month. You can see how your score changes from month to month and what factors currently influence your score.

    This is a very nice perk, as long as you don’t obsess over your credit score.

    How can I see all the benefits my credit card offers?

    Because there are so many credit card options on the market, the best thing to do is look up the card you have or are thinking about applying for.

    I prefer to visit websites like thepointsguy.com for thorough breakdowns and even valuations on each card’s offerings. This makes it easy to compare credit cards from different banks.

    You can also visit the credit card company’s website directly to learn the full extent of the benefits offered by each card.

    I use the Chase Sapphire Reserve and Chase Freedom Unlimited. Each card has a detailed webpage that details all of the benefits offered with the card.

    My favorite credit card benefit is still the ability to easily track your spending.

    Even with all these other benefits, my favorite credit card benefit is still the ability to easily track your spending.

    I’ve found this to be the easiest way to ensure I’m staying on budget and hitting my financial freedom goals.

    Do you use your credit cards to track your spending?

    What are your favorite benefits to using credit cards, other than reward points?

  • Money on My Mind: Global Happiness

    Money on My Mind: Global Happiness

    This week, we discuss recent reports on global happiness and starting families.

    We also discuss lessons from successful businesses that we can apply to our personal lives.

    The World Happiness Report 2025

    Since 2012, an organization known as The World Happiness Report (WHR) has studied global wellbeing and how to improve it.

    Each year, they analyze data from 140 countries and publish their findings in an effort to give everyone the knowledge to create more happiness for themselves and others.

    That sounds like a great mission to me.

    They also publish a global happiness ranking of all the countries studied. The rankings are based on answers to a single question:

    Please imagine a ladder with steps numbered from 0 at the bottom to 10 at the top. The top of the ladder represents the best possible life for you and the bottom of the ladder represents the worst possible life for you. On which step of the ladder would you say you personally feel you stand at this time?

    WHR explains that this “life evaluation” question empowers people to make their own judgments about what matters most.

    As part of its analysis, WHR uses economic modeling to explain countries’ average life evaluation scores. They look at six variables, and one of them jump out at me:

    “Freedom to make life choices.”

    What countries would you guess scored the highest on the 2025 rankings?

    The top five countries in the happiness rankings are:

    1. Finland
    2. Denmark
    3. Iceland
    4. Sweden
    5. Netherlands

    Each of these nations has ranked near the top for a long time.

    Where is the United States on the happiness chart?

    The United States fell to number 24, its lowest happiness ranking ever.

    The United States’ highest ranking was 11th place way back in 2011.

    I’m not totally surprised that the United States’ ranking is as low as it’s ever been.

    We’ve discussed some theories that may help explain this drop:

    I wasn’t surprised to see the United States rank 24th in the global happiness rankings, but I was shocked by the sub-ranking for this specific question:

    Are you satisfied or dissatisfied with your freedom to choose what you do with your life?

    The United States ranked 115th out of 147 countries in response to the freedom question!

    That ranking truly shocked me.

    It also helps explain one of the primary goals of Think and Talk Money: to help each of us reach financial freedom.

    When we are financially free, we can choose to live life on our own terms. To me, that sounds a lot like what the WHR freedom question is trying to answer.

    When you have financial freedom, you can make important decisions based on what truly matters. When you don’t have financial freedom, you risk making unsatisfactory decisions for money reasons.

    We can choose to spend more time with the people who are meaningful to us.

    We can choose to use our skills for work that is meaningful to us.

    Group of happy friends posing for a selfie on a spring day as they party together outdoors because they understand happiness is tied to financial freedom.

    Most of us grow up thinking that life only revolves around getting an education and then getting a job. We don’t allow ourselves to believe that financial freedom is possible for us.

    This was exactly how I felt before I wrote down my Tiara Goals one day on the beach in 2017.

    My goal with Think and Talk Money is to help us all realize that financial independence is within our reach. If we can think and talk about our money choices even a little bit every week, we can make sure our money life remains in balance with the rest of our life.

    By practicing strong personal finance habits, each of us can feel more satisfied with our freedom to choose what to do with our lives.

    How would you rank yourself on the freedom question?

    Are you satisfied with your freedom to choose what you do with your life?

    What are your core values?

    Have you ever written down your core values?

    Do you know what you’re striving for?

    Successful businesses look at these questions regularly. I find it helpful to learn how successful businesses operate so I can apply similar principles to my own life.

    For example, there’s a great business book called Traction by Gino Wickman. In the book, Wickman encourages businesses to focus on vision, mission, and values.

    It seems like a pretty good idea for all of us to think about vision, mission, and values as they apply to our own lives.

    For example, if you’re one of the nearly half of Americans not taking your PTO, are you making that choice based on your core values?

    It’s possible that you are. Perhaps you’re being strategic and have formulated a plan to benefit from all those extra hours at the office.

    Or, it’s possible that you’ve never really stopped to think about why you’re working so much. You’ve never paused to articulate to yourself what you want out of life.

    In Traction, Wickman makes a compelling argument why businesses should not skip this crucial step.

    We all should take the same step in our personal lives. In 2017, I wrote down my core values, what I call my Tiara Goals.

    Looking at the big picture, my Tiara Goals have helped me visualize what I truly want out of life.

    In the short term, my Tiara Goals help guide me through difficult decisions. As long as I’m clear with myself about what I want in the long run, I can make daily decisions to get my closer to those goals.

    Millennials want more kids but can’t afford them.

    According to a recent report from Business Insider, Millennials want more kids but can’t afford them.

    This makes me sad.

    The study points to rising costs, as well as the reality that Millennials are saddled with large amounts of student loan debt.

    Combined, it makes sense that Millennials are worried about money.

    If you want to start a family, or grow your family, what better motivation could there be to spend a little bit of time each week thinking and talking about money.

    If this is your reality, or you know someone in this position, establishing strong personal finance habits is crucial.

    Each week at Think and Talk Money, we focus on developing these strong personal finance habits.

    Please share Think and Talk Money with your friends and loved ones.

    I hope that in spreading the word about Think and Talk Money, we can all help each other make big life decisions without worrying about money.

    This is important whether you are hoping to start a family or have other life goals in mind.

    We can all benefit from making intentional and informed decisions with our money.

  • Why Credit Reports are So Important

    Why Credit Reports are So Important

    I first learned about credit when I was in law school. My teacher wasn’t a professor, though.

    My teacher was a surprisingly pleasant debt collector.

    I spoke to this debt collector after breaking my wrist snowboarding.

    For the second time in a year.

    Let me explain.

    About six months earlier, my friends and I took a road trip to go snowboarding in Wisconsin. I had never been to this location before and wanted to explore the entire ski area. After a few loops on the main run, I found my way to the terrain park.

    My plan was to scout out the terrain park and report back to my friends. I must have forgotten the plan as I approached a jump that I had no business approaching. That turned out to be a mistake.

    Heading towards the jump, I had too much speed and, for lack of a better word, panicked. My friend reported afterwards that as soon as I jumped, my body and snowboard turned parallel to the ground like I was lying in bed.

    After all these years, It almost seems peaceful to picture myself lazily flying through the air on a beautiful, blue sky, sunny day.

    Almost.

    To state the obvious, this was not a good position to be in since I needed my feet and snowboard to hit the ground first and land safely.

    I ended up landing on my backside with my hand and wrist hitting the ground first. The unpleasant result was a trip to the emergency room and a broken wrist.

    My reputation for having fragile wrists was secured.

    OK, back to the debt collector.

    A few weeks after returning to Chicago, I received a bill in the mail from the emergency room for approximately $200.

    I didn’t understand why I was receiving a bill since I had insurance and provided that information to the emergency room. I figured it must have been a mistake to send me a bill, and that my insurance company would pay for it.

    So, I crumbled up the bill and threw it in the trash.

    Healthcare and medicine. Medical and technology. Doctor working on digital tablet on hospital background illustrating how I first learned about the importance of credit history.

    Before you shake your head, remember that I was still in school and on my parents’ insurance. This was my first interaction with a medical provider where the bills came to me instead of them.

    I didn’t know at the time that even with insurance, I could potentially be responsible for some portion of the bill.

    For the next few months, I continued to receive bills from the emergency room. And, I continued to throw these bills straight in the trash.

    At some point, I received a new type of letter in the mail. This one caught my attention. It was from a collections agency.

    The letter said something to the effect of, “Call us immediately to dispute or pay this medical bill before we are forced to take action against you.”

    The scare tactic worked.

    I picked up the phone and had a surprisingly nice conversation with the debt collector. The debt collector explained how the collections process works and the potential impact failing to pay would have on my credit report.

    Credit report?

    Never heard of that before. Don’t think I have one.

    After hanging up the phone, I did some research and realized the debt collector wasn’t scamming me.

    I certainly did have a credit history, as reflected in my credit report, that I needed to be mindful of.

    I wrote a check to pay the bill the next day.

    This is how a broken wrist and a debt collector first taught me about credit reports.

    What is a credit report?

    As we learned in our post on using credit the right way, credit refers to an agreement to borrow money with the obligation to repay that money later, usually with interest.

    Credit also refers to a person’s trustworthiness or history of repayment.

    A credit report is a document that tracks that history of repayment, as well as the current status of any loans you’ve taken out.

    Your credit report will typically include:

    • Personal information (name, social security number, current and former addresses)
    • Credit accounts (current and historical accounts, including credit cards and any other loans)
    • Collection items (missed payments, loans sent to collections)
    • Public records (liens, foreclosures, bankruptcies)
    • Inquiries (when you apply for a new loan)

    Every time you open a loan, like a credit card, auto loan, or mortgage, it will appear on your credit report. Likewise, whenever you make a payment or miss a payment, that information will be reflected on your credit report.

    When someone has “good credit,” it means they have a reliable history of repayment. When someone has “bad credit,” it means they have not previously demonstrated a reliable history of repayment.

    Remember this key point: your credit report represents a complete picture of your interactions with credit over an extended period of time. Your credit report will include information about you going back years and years.

    This means that the information reflected on the report will follow you for the long term. Any negative information on your credit report will typically stay on your credit report for 7-10 years, depending on the credit reporting agency.

    What is a credit reporting agency?

    In the United States, there are three credit reporting agencies:

    • Equifax
    • Experian
    • TransUnion

    By law, you are entitled to receive a free copy of your credit report from each credit reporting agency every year.

    To do so, simply visit annualcreditreport.com.

    If you haven’t obtained your credit report recently, I highly encourage you to do so.

    Regularly checking your credit report is the best way to make sure that nobody has fraudulently opened any accounts using your social security number. It’s also the best way to monitor all the loans you are currently responsible for.

    Believe it or not, it’s not uncommon for people to forget about loans they have previously opened.

    Did you ever go to a Cubs game in college and sign up for a credit card just to receive a free XXL white t-shirt with a blue W on it?

    No?

    Uhh… me neither.

    How about signing up for a new credit card while making a purchase at your favorite store to save a whopping 10% that day?

    You may never end up using these credit cards and completely forget that you opened them. They’ll still appear on your credit report, and you are still responsible for those credit cards.

    Is a credit report different from a credit score?

    Yes, credit reports and credit scores are different.

    We’ll soon discuss credit scores in detail. For now, understand that a credit score is a number calculated based on your credit history that represents your present day creditworthiness.

    Your credit score captures a moment in time. That means it will change over time, sometimes quickly and dramatically.

    Unlike a credit score, your credit report does not change quickly. Like we mentioned earlier, any negative information on your credit report will typically stay on your credit report for 7-10 years.

    Why does my credit report matter?

    We typically rely on our ability to borrow money to make our biggest purchases in life. When you take out a mortgage or finance a car purchase, you are relying on your ability to borrow money to make that purchase.

    In these scenarios, lenders will “pull your credit” or do a “credit check” before agreeing to give you a loan.

    If you have a history of responsibly borrowing money and paying it back on time, a lender is more likely to lend you money.

    On the other hand, if you have a history of falling behind on payments, a lender may choose to not lend you money.

    Or, a lender may agree to give you a loan and charge you a higher interest rate to compensate for the increased risk. This could end up costing you lots of money.

    Poor credit history can lead to lost opportunities.

    Besides just financial consequences, a poor credit history can also lead to lost opportunities.

    As an example, it’s common practice for landlords to check an applicant’s credit history before renting them an apartment. Most major rental property search websites, like Zillow and Apartments.com, offer credit checks as part of the standard application process. My wife and I require a minimum credit score for all potential tenants.

    It makes sense why a landlord would pull an applicant’s credit. When you rent an apartment, you are signing a contract (a lease) to pay a predetermined about in exchange for a place to live.

    Landlords rely on those rent payments to pay for the property’s mortgage and upkeep. These rent payments can also directly impact the landlord’s livelihood.

    It should be no surprise that landlords are hesitant to rent apartments to people who have a poor track record of paying for things.

    Just as a landlord is sizing up your ability to pay the rent each month, other lenders, like a car dealership or mortgage lender, are sizing up the likelihood you can repay its loan.

    Don’t ignore your credit history.

    Have you checked your credit report this year?

    My wife and I check our reports at least once per year to make sure there are no red flags.

    Fortunately, I realized my mistake with the debt collector before that red flag ended up on my credit report.

    If I hadn’t, I would have seen that negative mark on my credit report for 7-10 years. This would have severely impacted my ability to qualify for mortgages and grow my real estate portfolio.

    I’m glad I learned that lesson about credit reports.

    I’m also glad that I haven’t been back to a terrain park since law school.

  • Good Credit with Unicorn Cake

    Good Credit with Unicorn Cake

    Something can be good and bad at the same time.

    I’ll give you an example. This weekend, we hosted a birthday party for my five-year-old daughter. She wanted a rainbow unicorn theme.

    When asked what she wanted for a present, she would unhelpfully respond, “No clue.”

    OK, great.

    Fortunately, the local toy store was stocked with rainbow unicorn items: puzzles, books, stuffed animals, craft kits, etc. The kids at school must be on the same page with their interest in rainbow unicorns this year.

    The rainbow unicorn party went well. We started with pizza, decorated cupcakes, and had a unicorn egg hunt.

    The highlight of the party?

    The birthday cake.

    We ordered a rainbow unicorn cake from one of the most popular bakeries in Chicago, Sweet Mandy B’s. The next time you’re in Chicago, do yourself a favor and pop in for a cupcake or cookie.

    After singing “Happy Birthday,” I started cutting pieces of cake for the kids. A few jumbo pieces of cake later, one of our guests came to my rescue and showed me how to cut smaller, kid-appropriate pieces.

    It’s a good thing she did because with the way I was cutting the cake, we were going to run out before all the adults got a piece. And that would have been a bad thing.

    See, this cake was incredible. I’m not always a cake guy (unless it’s ice cream cake), but this one was special.

    Vanilla confetti cake with buttercream frosting. It had the perfect balance of cake and filling. Sweet, but not too sweet. Soft and also firm.

    It wasn’t just me. I never saw a cake disappear so fast. Usually, we end up with so much cake leftover that I’m sneaking bites every time I open the fridge for the next week. Not this time. Sadly.

    By the end of the party, we had barely a single piece left (which was devoured within 24 hours).

    Half eaten cake on a plate symbolizing too much of a good thing like using too much credit can lead to debt which would be a bad thing

    There is a bright side to finishing the cake, though.

    If I had an unlimited supply of this cake, I’m not sure I could stop myself from eating it. The temptation would be too strong to sneak back to the fridge all day long, fork in hand. One little bite at a time.

    It’ll be fine.

    What does birthday cake have to do with personal finance?

    You know where this is going.

    Eating a wonderful cake at a birthday party is a good thing.

    Eating cake every day for the next week, no matter how good it is, would be a bad thing.

    You see? Something can be good and bad at the same time.

    And that leads us to our next major topic in the blog: the responsible use of credit.

    What is credit?

    Credit refers to an agreement to borrow money with the obligation to repay that money later, usually with interest. In this context, think of “credit” as another way of saying “debt.” When you use credit, you’re taking on debt.

    Credit also refers to a person’s trustworthiness or history of repayment. When someone has “good credit,” it means they have a reliable history of repayment.

    It’s important to always remember that credit and debt go hand-in-hand. That’s why before we discuss how credit can help us, we learned scary stats about debt. We discussed three big reasons why we’re in debt. And, in a preview to our conversation on credit, we learned the difference between Good Debt and Bad Debt.

    We typically rely on credit for big purchases.

    We typically rely on our ability to borrow money, or our credit, to make our biggest purchases in life. When you take out a mortgage or finance a car purchase, you are relying on your ability to borrow money to make that purchase. That ability to borrow money is known as credit.

    If you have a history of responsibly borrowing money and paying it back on time, a lender is more likely to lend you money.

    On the other hand, if you have a history of falling behind on payments, a lender may choose to not lend you money. Or, a lender may charge you higher interest rates to compensate for their increased risk.

    This could end up costing you lots of money.

    Poor credit will cost you more than just money.

    Besides just financial consequences, a poor credit history can also lead to lost opportunities.

    As an example, it’s common practice for landlords to check an applicant’s credit history before renting them an apartment. It should be no surprise that landlords are hesitant to rent apartments to people who have a poor track record of paying for things.

    These reasons, and other reasons we’ll soon discuss, illustrate why it’s so important to responsibly use credit.

    In our initial series on credit, we’ll discuss:

    • The basics of credit reports and credit scores and why they each matter.
    • How the responsible use of credit cards can fit into our personal finances.
    • What you need to know to maximize the benefits of credit card reward programs.
    • How to use other forms of credit, like a Home Equity Line of Credit (HELOC), to accelerate your progress towards financial freedom.

    By understanding what credit is and how your credit history is tracked, you’ll gain the confidence to use credit responsibly as part of a healthy financial life.

    I am in favor of the responsible use of credit.

    As I previewed in our discussion on Good Debt, I’m in favor of people responsibly using credit as part of a healthy financial life.

    That applies to our every day choices, like using credit cards to track our spending. It also applies to other forms of credit, like Home Equity Lines of Credit (HELOCs), to acquire assets. We’ll discuss these and other benefits of responsibly using credit in our upcoming posts.

    The important caveat, however, is that like the Sweet Mandy B’s birthday cake, we have to know when a good thing can become a bad thing.

    If we abuse the privilege of credit, the consequences can be severe. I abused the privilege of credit cards at the beginning of my career, and it took years to dig out of the hole.

    By understanding how credit works and how your credit is tracked, I hope you can avoid falling into a similar mess.

    I want you to happily enjoy the cake without the potential negative consequences.