I’m further away from financial independence today than I was five years ago.
You know what’s funny?
I couldn’t be happier about where I am today.
Let me explain.
In 2020, my wife and I had very minimal expenses.
At the start of 2020, my wife and I were both working as lawyers in Chicago. We lived in an apartment in a 4-flat that we had purchased in 2018. We had no kids at the start of the year, but were about to welcome our first.
This was a good apartment in a popular part of town. It had 3 bedrooms and 2.5 bathrooms. That was plenty of space for my wife and I, and eventually the two babies we brought home there.
We purchased this 4-flat from a real estate investor who had done a decent job on the renovation. It had in-unit washer/dryer, modern finishes, and plenty of storage.
We had a small outdoor patio with enough room for a grill and little table. We also had a garage parking space but ended up parking our 20-year-old car on the street most days.
When we purchased the building, it was the most expensive 4-flat that had ever been sold in that part of town. It was a bit of a risk to set the high-water mark in the area.
In the end, the risk was more than worth it.
Even though the building was expensive for the area, this was not a fancy apartment. This part of town was still up-and-coming. Some people probably thought it was not a nice part of town.
I doubt many people came over and thought, “Wow, look at this amazing apartment!”
The more likely reaction was probably something like, “What the heck are they doing?”
To be fair, I asked myself that question plenty of times.
So, what were we doing?
We were paying ourselves to live there.
Say that again?
My wife and I paid ourselves to live in that apartment.
We lived for free. And made a profit at the same time.
See, the rental income from the other three units covered the entire mortgage plus all expenses for the property.
But, that’s not all. On top of covering all the expenses, the rental units generated a profit of $1,000 per month on average.
So, not only did we spend zero dollars each month on housing, we profited $1,000 per month.
Looking back, getting paid to live in a decent apartment was maybe the best decision we ever made.

What happens to your finances when you live for free?
Let’s take a look at how living for free can be a major advantage on your way to financial freedom.
The common wisdom is for people to spend no more than 30% of their gross income on housing. Regardless of how much you make, that usually means thousands of dollars.
Because our tenants were paying our living expenses for us, we did not have that expense for the five years we lived in that apartment.
In other words, we didn’t have to worry about budgeting for housing.
We also drove a nearly 20-year-old car and could walk to the “L” (Chicago’s subway). We lived in a neighborhood with plenty of nearby restaurants and shops. That meant our transportation costs were next to nothing.
Because we weren’t paying for housing and had very minimal transportation costs, we could supercharge our savings.
How much were we able to save?
Let’s take a look.
Between 2018 and 2023, my wife and I acquired three buildings and ten apartments in that same neighborhood. We’re very familiar with market rents in the area.
We rent our apartments for anywhere from $2,300 to $3,600 per month. Our usual tenants are professionals like engineers, lawyers, doctors, consultants, and pilots.
The unit we were living in from 2018 to 2022 was one of our larger units. At the time, it would have rented for $3,500 per month on average. That equals $42,000 per year to rent that apartment.
Keep in mind, if someone was paying rent to live there, that would be $42,000 of after-tax money.
Since we owned the building, we lived there for free. We could save that $42,000 we would have otherwise paid in rent. Instead of spending that savings on things we didn’t need, we were able to save that money for our next real estate investment.
Plus, we earned $1,000 on average per month while we lived there. That’s an additional $12,000 per year in profit.
We lived in that unit for almost five years.
Add it all up and we saved $270,000 by living in that apartment for five years.
- $42,000 saved rent x 5 years =$210,000.
- $12,000 profits x 5 years = $60,000.
- Total savings = $270,000
We used that $270,000 for a downpayment on a rental condo in Colorado ski country.
It took five years of living in a decent, but not-awesome, apartment to have a ski condo that will hopefully be in our family for decades.
Choosing to live in our 4-flat to save $270,000 over five years was one of the best financial decisions we’ve ever made.

I highly recommend you consider house hacking if you’d like to start investing in real estate.
Many of you are familiar with the strategy of living in a building (or home) you own while tenants (or roommates) pay for it. Brandon Turner, of BiggerPockets fame, popularized the concept he dubbed “House Hacking”.
You can read all about house hacking on BiggerPockets here.
For even more information on house hacking, Craig Curelop wrote a book for BiggerPockets called The House Hacking Strategy: How to Use Your Home to Achieve Financial Freedom.
Without a doubt, there is no better strategy for entry level real estate investors than house hacking. I gave you a glimpse of the financial upside earlier in this post.
Besides the financial upside, it’s like landlording with training wheels. Since you live on site, you can more easily learn how to manage a rental property, including responding to tenants and handling routine maintenance.
The naysayers will say something like, “I don’t want to live with my tenants. They’re going to stress me out. I don’t want to be bothered at 2 a.m.”
Ignore them.
My wife and I lived with our tenants for five years at this property and two more years at a subsequent property. We did this while working full-time jobs as lawyers and raising two kids.
Because we didn’t listen to the naysayers, we now have four income-generating properties and our “forever home” just outside Chicago.
Even though we’re no longer living for free, the income from our rental properties is enough to cover the expenses of our home.
So, why am I further away from financial independence today?
I’m further away from financial independence today because my expenses have gone up since 2020. I’ve already alluded to those increased expenses throughout the post.
In 2020, we had our first child. Now, we have three children.
Also, after seven years of house hacking, we decided it was time to purchase a long-term home for our growing family just outside the city in a terrific area.
We also finally traded in our 21-year-old car for our first new car ever.
How’s this for easy math:
Three Children + Nice House + New Car = Further Away from Financial Independence
While that combination means I’m further away from reaching financial independence, I now have everything that I could possibly ever want.
That’s why I couldn’t be happier with where I’m at today.
My end game is finally in sight. Five years ago, I didn’t know where I’d be living or what car I’d be driving or what my family situation might be.
Now, the picture is clear.
I can calculate with reasonable certainty how much money I need to be truly financially independent. I can use that number as a target and make every financial decision with that target in mind.
That’s why in 2025, I’m focused on paying down HELOC debt. Each time I make a debt payment, I move closer to financial independence.
Besides, my goal is FIPE not FIRE.
My goal is to reach FIPE not FIRE.
FIPE means Financial Independence, Pivot Early.
I have no intentions of retiring any time soon. Retiring early is not, and has never been, my goal.
My goal is to become financially independent to create as many options as possible to protect myself and my family. I want to be financially independent so I can pivot no matter what life throws at me.
If my goal was to retire early, I may have skipped the single family home in a great neighborhood. I could have continued house hacking, minimized my expenses, and lived off of the rest of the rental income.
But, I want more for me and my family. I don’t want to just survive.
Have you delayed financial independence to craft the life you really want?
My life has certainly changed in the past five years, but all that change has been for the better.
That meant house hacking at first to keep expenses as low as possible. Now it means enjoying the wealth I created by making those earlier sacrifices.
In order to have the life I want, I needed to temporarily move further away from financial independence.
Still, I’m confident that I’ve taken the right steps to not just reach financial independence, but to reach it while living the life I want.
The tradeoff is that it will take me longer to be truly financially independent. I’m perfectly happy with that.
Financial independence has never been more clearly in sight. It’s just delayed a little bit.
- Is your goal to reach FIPE and pivot as quickly as possible?
- Or, are you OK with delaying FIPE temporarily for the life you truly want?
Let us know in the comments below.